i dont know what to do.im in love with someone and he is married.happily.im - Help.com

leave him alone.
its alot of truble for you that man.
his married he dont have nothing to do for you..you want married him you cant do nothing..
his married leave him alone..if your going to stay with him you are going to have alot of truble trust me..
so move on..leave him alone its better now than late..

r u serious?! U don’t know what to do? Do nothing!!! Don’t have anything to do with him!

ℓινιηg4уσυ is right, if you go after this guy it will only cause heartache.

Sir Cody † wrote:
ℓινιηg4уσυ is right, if you go after this guy it will only cause heartache.

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Thanks :)

First, you only think that you are in love, time will pass and you will realize that you never REALLY loved him…..it’s called lust and wanting something you can’t have.

Second, the man is happily married- you should not try to undermine that and cause him and his family heartache. That is wrong. You have no right to interfere.He will never love you like you want him to and will hate you if you try to ruin his family.

You are 16.
Don’t even attempt to mention anything of your feelings to this man. He is married, to someone he loves. Why on earth would he leave her for a 16 year old?
I know I’m coming across as slightly blunt, harsh even, but just think about what you’re doing, the probability of his feelings being mutual to yours is incredibly low if not nonexistant.
Also, think about what would happen if he realised or you told him and he rejected you? You would have to live with that embarrassing knowledge for years to come. It’s not worth it. You are young, you will find someone you love who loves you. Forget about this man and save all this heartache.

yea…he doesnt even notice you kiddo. try finding someone your own age eh.

He just need you for his mind..and nothing more..

please get rid of him asap…i’ve been thru it…its not worth the pain u will go thru,trust me.

(people should really proofread their comments before posting.)

but they’re right, just think of how you’d feel if you were his wife, and someone else is trying to come between you two. not cool, right?

i understand how you feel, you think you’re in love (been there) and maybe even feel like you will never get over him (trust me, you will). it just sucks in the meantime.

i’m also not you or him, so i don’t know if he’s leading you on, etc, but i assume not since you said he was “happily” married. either way it’s the wrong thing to do. it will come back around to haunt you, and this is one of the few scenarios where being rejected will hurt worse than just trying to get over it.

thanks u guys that helps alot.