He doesn’t know if he’s physically attracted to me.
(Yes, he’s straight.)
The guy I’m dating claims he’s never been really physically attracted to anyone before, and isn’t sure if he’s capable.
He and I have a very good relationship. He subconsciously acts physically attracted to me by the way and amount he touches me, how he has a wants to date me and he hasn’t for other girls, etc.) He has never let himself look at anyone that way. I think the real problem is that he hasn’t decided it’s okay to be with me.
I want him to be attracted. I think he is. I don’t know what to do about it.
His plan is to wait and see. He does want us to work out, and he won’t lead me on. But I’m tired of passively waiting. I should be able to do something to help him discover, but I don’t think there is really anything I can do. I get more secure all the time that he wants me, but his feelings are still just as insecure as before. It will hurt
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