Love help: my fiance told me straight out tonight that he doesn’t love me anymore, and when i tried to hug him he said dont touch me. - Help.com

Give him some room and some time to cool off….
next begin with some small talk and then allow the confersation to escalade.

sometimes we guys say a lot of crap in the heat of the moment.

it just shows that the womans job isn’t done (secretly training us to be what you want).

First of all, I’m very sorry that you’re going through this. I know this is such an incredibly painful thing to go through and right now it feels like your world is ending. I know you probably don’t believe me, but I promise you it will not always hurt this much. My world has been turned upside down too (my husband had an affair while I was pregnant, told me he didn’t love me anymore, and left me and our two toddlers), and I thought I’d never be happy again. If it weren’t for my kids, I think I would’ve just given up. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever gone through in my life, but I made it through. My faith played a big part in that, and also making the decision to pick myself up off the floor and be the best version of me I could be. My kids were my main reason for continuing on. You need to find your reason for continuing on. It doesn’t even have to be a big thing. Start small…like a relative or friend that might need some help. Sometimes helping someone else can actually heal your own broken heart a little. As much as you’re dying inside, it is possible to move on from something like this…to continue your life, to feel happiness again, and even to become stronger from it. But you do have to make the decision to do that. But don’t feel like you have to do that all right now. It’s okay to take time to grieve. You need to do that in order to heal and move on. So cry, eat lots of chocolate, talk to your friends, and cry some more. But hold onto the hope that this WILL pass. You will be okay, as long as you don’t give up. I hope you don’t mind if I keep you in my prayers. Hang in there…I promise it’ll get better.

Sounds like it’s time to break up and move on. Break the plans to marry and give him his walking papers.

He could be just experiencing the getting married shock wave.

be strong, you will be happy with or without him, even though it’s hard to see it now