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please help me as soon as you can im having really scary thoughts about doing something stupid.

my mom and i got in afight, she said meqan things took my phone and just left. i have no way to talk to anyone and i need her to come home now. im 14

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Why did you fight?

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

i cant seek proffesional help, i already have a therapist but i have no way to get in contact with anyone

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

i dont even know, she just got really really upset randomly

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

I am sure your mum didn’t mean the things she said: people are at their worst when they are mad. Don’t let one thing get you down - we all have horrible times to go through, but just remember everything will get better soon, the horrible thoughts will evaporate and you will be happy - keep being positive :)
Good Luck…

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

vivalalollypo wrote:
i dont even know, she just got really really upset randomly

Really? So your mom just fought with you out of the blue? C’mon tell the whole story!

What did you do?

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

are you guys just random [eople who try and help me?because i dont understand how my mom can just drive away but random strangers pretend to care

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

What did you do?

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i didnt do anything. we were driving home and she just started yelling at me. she dropped me off at home and then left, so i started balling, trying to figure out what the hell to do, so i typed in help on google

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

We don’t pretend to care - we just want to help you acting on our own experience :)
It sounds like something else happened to your Mum to put her in such a horrible mood - she’ll come back soon, and you must comfort her because I think something has happened…

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

and what if she doesnt come back? what if shes just as upset as me and is having the same scary stupid thoughts that i am?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

vivalalollypo wrote:
and what if she doesnt come back? what if shes just as upset as me and is having the same scary stupid thoughts that i am?

Contact some of her friends and see if they can hekp her. Whatever you do, be optomistic, don’t panic or be rash - try and relax by writing or playing music - I think it might help if you take your mind off it a bit

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

im so upset i just feel like nothing ever right happens. and why should it? i dont ever do anything that make me deserve anything good. because even when things are good i mess htem up. in some way or another i **** it all up.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

Are you or your mom bipolar?

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vivalalollypo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

juat what i thought. nobody has anything to say to me

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Answer the question.

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