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what is going ON here?

every post i see has two people trying to help, and everyone else is competeing and arguing or just being sacastic and useless! or they just beat everyone down. whay can’t people just have some respect? hell, i’m a fault, no doubt, but i dont go out of my way to make things difficult. why are we doing this? isnt this site a place to find help? why can’t we just get along and do what we came here to do? we arn’t here to compete over who’s answer is best, this isnt a debate site. we arnt here to make jokes and sarcastic remarks of serious posts, and we are certainly not here to troll on peoples problems. is anyone else ready to make a change for the better? does anyone else want to try to start helping again? we’ve all done this crap, lets admit that, and try to fix it. i want to formally apologize to anyone and everyone i may have, intent or not, insulted or hurt. anyone else have something to say for themselves?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

yeah, and then there’s all the people trying to get a popular post…

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

if you’re trying to say i’m a hypocrit (did i spell that right?) you’re most likely right. which is why i’m apologizing for what i have done, and asking others to do the same. is that so wrong?

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (7 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
yeah, and then there’s all the people trying to get a popular post…

true.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

carpe_noctem wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

if you’re trying to say i’m a hypocrit (did i spell that right?) you’re most likely right. which is why i’m apologizing for what i have done, and asking others to do the same. is that so wrong?

Yes.
Find peace within yourself before attempting to bring peace to the world.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Yes.
Find peace within yourself before attempting to bring peace to the world.

true.

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

carpe_noctem wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

if you’re trying to say i’m a hypocrit (did i spell that right?) you’re most likely right. which is why i’m apologizing for what i have done, and asking others to do the same. is that so wrong?

Yes.
Find peace within yourself before attempting to bring peace to the world.

you did READ the post, yes? i have already accepted that i did something wrong. i have already apologized. now, i’m hoping that others like you and me can do the same. im not magically forgivin, of course, but realizing that i did things wrong and apologizing has let me forgive myself. please, with all due respect, don’t try to take ownership of my purpose.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (13 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

I second this.

Carpe Noctem is always insulting people and making them feel like crap.

What? You woke up on the good side of the bed today?

What about tomorrow when you wake on the wrong side again?

Fix yourself first before you want to fix everybody else.

Sorry but that’s how I feel.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Yes.
Find peace within yourself before attempting to bring peace to the world.

true.

Ditto, again!

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

I second this.

Carpe Noctem is always insulting people and making them feel like crap.

What? You woke up on the good side of the bed today?

What about tomorrow when you wake on the wrong side again?

Fix yourself first before you want to fix everybody else.

Sorry but that’s how I feel.

i KNOW. thats why i want to fix it. maybe it’s too late to apologize but i’m being sincere here. this is what i mean, im not the only person to act badly, and no, it doesnt excuse my behavior. but if you are trying to stop me from fixing what i did wrong, doesnt that make you just as bad?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (16 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

I second this.

Carpe Noctem is always insulting people and making them feel like crap.

What? You woke up on the good side of the bed today?

What about tomorrow when you wake on the wrong side again?

Fix yourself first before you want to fix everybody else.

Sorry but that’s how I feel.

No, I believe people can change, but…

carpe_noctem wrote:
you did READ the post, yes? i have already accepted that i did something wrong. i have already apologized. now, i’m hoping that others like you and me can do the same. im not magically forgivin, of course, but realizing that i did things wrong and apologizing has let me forgive myself. please, with all due respect, don’t try to take ownership of my purpose.

Prove it. That is all I’m asking of you.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

Why do you think everybody is posting anon here? Because if you know who they really are, you will come after us and start insulting us. And you can dish out some pretty good insults and then when they insult you back, you get pretty irate.

Drama much?

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
This is slightly subjective of me, but I think this is a case of a pot calling the tea kettle black.
No offence though.

I second this.

Carpe Noctem is always insulting people and making them feel like crap.

What? You woke up on the good side of the bed today?

What about tomorrow when you wake on the wrong side again?

Fix yourself first before you want to fix everybody else.

Sorry but that’s how I feel.

No, I believe people can change, but…

carpe_noctem wrote:
you did READ the post, yes? i have already accepted that i did something wrong. i have already apologized. now, i’m hoping that others like you and me can do the same. im not magically forgivin, of course, but realizing that i did things wrong and apologizing has let me forgive myself. please, with all due respect, don’t try to take ownership of my purpose.

Prove it. That is all I’m asking of you.

i start with this. an appology. i cant do much more unless i know i have a chance. i really am sorry you guys, can’t anyone give me another chance?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

Wow, your own post turned on you. lol.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

i have a question, when you guys are saying stuff like ‘prove it’ or ‘fix yourslef’ dosnt that make u trolls too? i mean, carpe’s been a b!tch, im not gonna suger coat it, but we’re just lowering ourselves to carpe’s level…

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i have a question, when you guys are saying stuff like ‘prove it’ or ‘fix yourslef’ dosnt that make u trolls too? i mean, carpe’s been a b!tch, im not gonna suger coat it, but we’re just lowering ourselves to carpe’s level…

um. not quite what i was looking for… but this does make a point…

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
i have a question, when you guys are saying stuff like ‘prove it’ or ‘fix yourslef’ dosnt that make u trolls too? i mean, carpe’s been a b!tch, im not gonna suger coat it, but we’re just lowering ourselves to carpe’s level…

No. I don’t think so. It’s just like the boy who cried wolf one too many times.

Nobody believes her.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Wow, your own post turned on you. lol.

You’re not helpful.

carpe_noctem wrote:
i start with this. an appology. i cant do much more unless i know i have a chance. i really am sorry you guys, can’t anyone give me another chance?

Carpe, I’ve given you a chance the moment you apologized. I hope it is enough for now, you can’t expect everyone to believe it. If you want them to, show them. Prove it over time.
Good luck.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

carpe_noctem wrote:

Anonymous wrote:
i have a question, when you guys are saying stuff like ‘prove it’ or ‘fix yourslef’ dosnt that make u trolls too? i mean, carpe’s been a b!tch, im not gonna suger coat it, but we’re just lowering ourselves to carpe’s level…

um. not quite what i was looking for… but this does make a point…

well you have been mean.

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carpe_noctem offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 12 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

why do i feel like this was a waste of time? all i want is to change. no ones trying to help… ok.

thank you for those who helped me when i asked for it. sorry to those who i was wring to. take it or leave it.

i give up. if you guys want me gone, i’m gone. thanks for your time.

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