You want me gone so I’m gone.
I have apologized up to my limit. Take it or leave it. But don’t think I haven’t been hurt too. I give what I get. I have been trolled on, insulted, and shunned just as much as I have done to you. I’m not leaving because I am ashamed, I leave because I have pride. So, goodbye and good luck to all who will take it.
becc, if you are reading this, thank you making me feel as though I helped. I know things will work for you, and thank you.
To everyone else, thank you for your time, and good luck on everything.
I’m here for fifteen minutes, so you guys can say what you need to and then we can wash our hands of it.
Seize the night.
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Anonymous wrote:
Do you think your leaving is going to help someone?
staying certainly hasn’t, according to everyone i have spoken to. why waste what little time i have left in a place i am not wanted?
Anonymous wrote:
And I’m sorry.
don’t be. you all had every right to be angry with me. this isn’t a post for compassion or forgivness, i just want you all to have a chance to say your say if you want to.
hate to sound heartless but i think this is for the best. youve hurt alot of people.
Anonymous wrote:
hate to sound heartless but i think this is for the best. youve hurt alot of people.
thank you for seeing it my way. blunt and honest is the way to go.
Helping often means not recieving a thank you, just because you feel like you haven’t helped just because you don’t get people telling you so doesn’t mean you haven’t.
Unless you are a giant troll who spends their whole time makeing fake posts to waste other peoples times and reply to other posts just to insult others then I see no reason why you feel you have to leave as this place needs all the help it can friggin get these days, it’s going down the pan, or hadn’t you noticed??
Stay and help.
actions speak louder then words…
pride isn’t necessarily a bad thing, just make sure you don’t choke on it - if you don’t really want to leave, then don’t. stay, and change into the new and improved version of you. even if some are still uncertain of your good intentions, just prove them you’re on the level by doing it.
whatever your choice, best of luck.
seize life.
carpe_noctem wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Do you think your leaving is going to help someone?staying certainly hasn’t, according to everyone i have spoken to. why waste what little time i have left in a place i am not wanted?
I’m asking *your* opinion on the matter. You’re the only one the matters, as this post is about you. It’s your life, your choice how to spend it.
carpe_noctem wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
And I’m sorry.don’t be. you all had every right to be angry with me. this isn’t a post for compassion or forgivness, i just want you all to have a chance to say your say if you want to.
I was never angry at you. But I hurt you, and wish for your forgiveness. As I would of any other person.
Anonymous wrote:
carpe_noctem wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Do you think your leaving is going to help someone?staying certainly hasn’t, according to everyone i have spoken to. why waste what little time i have left in a place i am not wanted?
I’m asking *your* opinion on the matter. You’re the only one the matters, as this post is about you. It’s your life, your choice how to spend it.
carpe_noctem wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
And I’m sorry.don’t be. you all had every right to be angry with me. this isn’t a post for compassion or forgivness, i just want you all to have a chance to say your say if you want to.
I was never angry at you. But I hurt you, and wish for your forgiveness. As I would of any other person.
i am not the only one that matters just because i posted it, but thank you.
Anonymous wrote:
hate to sound heartless but i think this is for the best. youve hurt alot of people.
No I don’t think so.
We all have different personalities and different approaches.
People want me gone and I have considered leaving. But the people who actually want me gone, are so few that they don’t really count or take into consideration.
Even after some people who have befriended me and been my friends for a long time, have turned on me and insulted me and wished 1000 deaths, I just take it in stride.
You should stay.
:)
Anonymous wrote:
actions speak louder then words…pride isn’t necessarily a bad thing, just make sure you don’t choke on it - if you don’t really want to leave, then don’t. stay, and change into the new and improved version of you. even if some are still uncertain of your good intentions, just prove them you’re on the level by doing it.
whatever your choice, best of luck.
seize life.
no one will beleive in a new improved version, i’m sorry. but i do appreciate your honesty.
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Helping often means not recieving a thank you, just because you feel like you haven’t helped just because you don’t get people telling you so doesn’t mean you haven’t.Unless you are a giant troll who spends their whole time makeing fake posts to waste other peoples times and reply to other posts just to insult others then I see no reason why you feel you have to leave as this place needs all the help it can friggin get these days, it’s going down the pan, or hadn’t you noticed??
Stay and help.
really, i wont stay. when everything i say gets pushed aside, i am wasting my time and others. i know fristhand that we do not have alot of time here, and i would much rather spend it with people who care for me. i’m sure the rest of this site agree, even though im the one who said it.
littlenick wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
hate to sound heartless but i think this is for the best. youve hurt alot of people.No I don’t think so.
We all have different personalities and different approaches.
People want me gone and I have considered leaving. But the people who actually want me gone, are so few that they don’t really count or take into consideration.
Even after some people who have befriended me and been my friends for a long time, have turned on me and insulted me and wished 1000 deaths, I just take it in stride.
You should stay.
:)
ah, i was hoping you’d show up. i still feel badly about insulting you, idid reply to your shout but i’m not sure if you read it. even if you cant forgive me (i understand) you are one of the many who i have hurt, and a am sincerely sorry.
Go because you want to but don’t leave because you think no one cares what you have to say or the advice you give.
i have been here a little longer than i promised, so it’s time to go. good luck everyone! and goodbye.
(now i have to find something else to do… with everything thats been going on lately, i havnt been able to leave often. and i miss my own bed… it didnt beep.)
If you leave, we will never know if you actually changed. Because I believe you also have to change with the people who are actually around you in the real world.
Stick around.
Show people that you can actually change and be sincere.
i never met you. idk what you did or said i hope u didnt waste you time and other ppls after all thats not what this site is about.im sure u came hear to give/ get help, any way best of luck with whatever u want to do.
and littlenick u have allways been good to me
“Different strokes for different folks….” Meaning that some ppl who need help/advice respond better to certain types of advice (say your advice) and others who need help/advice respond better to other types of advice (my advice, for example). I do not really know what types of advice you have given, but you never know….the words that you typed may be the ones that stick with someone when they most need them.
Everyone has different perceptions at differnt times in their lives.
Anonymous wrote:
good riddence. this b!tch never took anything i said seriously and she never helped. personally, im glad your leaving. after everything you have done to me, i can honestly say i wont miss you.
not nice. :(
Anonymous wrote:
good riddence. this b!tch never took anything i said seriously and she never helped. personally, im glad your leaving. after everything you have done to me, i can honestly say i wont miss you.
Why should she take something that you said seriously? What makes your advice the best? And why are you so mean?
Anonymous wrote:
littlenick wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
good riddence. this b!tch never took anything i said seriously and she never helped. personally, im glad your leaving. after everything you have done to me, i can honestly say i wont miss you.not nice. :(
what, didn’t you think she was mean? has she never hurt you?
The subject of nick’s claim is not Carpe.
Anonymous wrote:
littlenick wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
good riddence. this b!tch never took anything i said seriously and she never helped. personally, im glad your leaving. after everything you have done to me, i can honestly say i wont miss you.not nice. :(
what, didn’t you think she was mean? has she never hurt you?
Yes mate, but two wrongs don’t really make a right. But, c’mon. that’s harsh. People do deserve another chance.
Anonymous wrote:
oh, so your all on her side now that she’s leaving? thats just what she wants you guys, dont fall for her bs again.
I’m on her side because you’re swearing atop a grave. Actually, because you’re swearing at all and not giving a good enough reason for it.
wild_stripe wrote:
can anyone tell me what happened?
http://help.com/post/321428-what-is-g…
Partially.
Anonymous wrote:
Pepper Jelly wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
good riddence. this b!tch never took anything i said seriously and she never helped. personally, im glad your leaving. after everything you have done to me, i can honestly say i wont miss you.Why should she take something that you said seriously? What makes your advice the best? And why are you so mean?
oh, so your all on her side now that she’s leaving? thats just what she wants you guys, dont fall for her bs again.
I’m not on anyone’s side. I’m just pointing out observations that I have made based on the few replies on this post.
im very confused,what exactly did this person do what was so horrible?
Stay and help. Seize the nights.
So what if she comes back??
There are plenty of ppl on this site that make my life miserable…what’s one more? ‘course, as far as I know, she hasn’t made my life miserable.
Anonymous wrote:
when she made that stupid post about how sorry she was, no one gave her a second chance. wtf is up with this? whats so different about a new post? why didnt you forgive her then? SHE’S TROLLIN you guys. she aint leavin, just watch she’ll come back and make another life miserable.
Read the post again. Thoroughly. Then take a deep breath, and make yourself a cup of tea. Then read it again, while sipping the tea.
wild_stripe wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
wild_stripe wrote:
can anyone tell me what happened?carpe was a harsh person who was mean to everyone and left sarcastic crap all over the place.
kind of like how you are now?
Touche!
Is it me…
Or isn’t it a breach of TOU to use Help to continue a personal vendetta?
If someone has apologised for their past and wants to make amends… don’t pursue a vendetta green anon!
As a complete outsider to what on earth this is all about, all I can say is that it sounds very sad indeed. I wish you well carpe, whatever you decide to do.
It takes courage to say be open and say sorry - it’s easy to hide and be mean.
Unsubscribing. The replies have become childish and full of personal vengence.
But, before I go: I think that you should leve Carpe alone; and if you don’t like what she has to say, then YOU take the responsibility to AVOID her posts/replies.
gooodbye whoever you are
i am typing this without reading the babble above me, i refuse too (morons)
But you’ll be back once someone makes a post saying they leave they always comes back :P
whatever the problem is you could ignore the problem, ignoring the “problem” makes them go away and be a “problem” to someone else for they have lost their interest
well its fairly likely that youve gone away, had a sleep, realised how silly this all was, and will be back before we all know it. thats what usually happens.
dont get upset by what people say to you on the internet. honestly. that like crying when a baby makes a face at you.
ESPECIALLY anons. you know theyre only saying it because they feel some kind of false bravado behind their anonymous mask, when in reality theyre pimply little cretans who cry after giving head.
not everyone in the world is gonna like you or agree with you dood. its just life. it just happens here more often than anywhere else, because people here are mentally unstable and cant handle differing opinions is all.
just get mad, get over it, move on, keep goin.
Are they gone or was I too late to say goodbye? :(
i have an idea carpe.. make a new account. in your last post you said sorry, and i want to change and all. thats great, i dont know you so i cant personally comment on your behavior, but if you realize that you need to make some changes then thats all that matters. this site obviously means a lot to you, so giving it up completely i think would be a total waste considering the almost certain armageddon which this site is about to face. take the time we all have left here and go out on a good note. we wont know who you are, but you will know that you made the best of the time that is left, which i can personally say is a change for the better. take what you said in your last post and put it into action, lets all start helping each other again.
sleep well
i just realized that armageddon might be a bit too dramatic. i meant the site will probably shut down soon.
my badz
lets see
senem away with a fresh red and green buger?
nahhhh,i’ll keep it 4 me,,
hm a hug n kiss? yeah right
maby a good swift kick,,,
nahhhh my hip isnt doing well n i dunwana agravate it
i duno
but u’ll be back
diffrent name
same name
anon
who knows
but youll be back
btw
i plan on going to chinese buffet tomorow
wana come?
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