Happy thoughts :)
Feeling blah
Mixture of still being abit ill and something else…
Random thoughts, not so random thoughts and any other thoughts will do..
Or just to *whispers* chat ¬_¬
No one heard that right?
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Aww. Don’t feel sad honey. Yeah, I’ve got no right to call you honey, but I was feeling ill last week so I feel for you. Promise I’m not a creep, I’m 15 and female. Slightly bored, and revising biology. And I’ve got SAD(seasonal affective disorder) so I’m feeling really bleh at the mo too. Yay for us. Dunno why I repied… felt like it I s’pose.
But everyone should feel happy today, because… well I;m yet to think of a reason why, but I swear it’ll be a good’n.
You replied because there was no reason not to :)
SAD, heard of that, how crappy :S
You need to study hard so you can grow up and get a job where you can have a condo in florida, where the sun shines all year around and maybe claim money on it or insurance as it is a health issue to need the sun :D
I’ve got only one now, of my girlfriend thinking of me.
Anonymous wrote:
I’ve got only one now, of my girlfriend thinking of me.
lol I swear your stalking me on here ;)
One good thought is good though :)
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I’ve got only one now, of my girlfriend thinking of me.lol I swear your stalking me on here ;)
One good thought is good though :)
I hope you did not mean it.
It’s slipping away though. I think she’s thinking of something else now…
happiness is hersheys dark chocolate kisses and french vanilla ice cream, plus an electric blanket to keep from freezing while enjoying…. mmmmmmmm…
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)
Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?
You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
abnormalogic wrote:
happiness is hersheys dark chocolate kisses and french vanilla ice cream, plus an electric blanket to keep from freezing while enjoying…. mmmmmmmm…
Drools, yeah that sounds happy enough, you pass :D
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
*paper~aeroplane* wrote:
*huggles*
oooh cuddles and hugs in one giant huggles fest, neat, you pass!
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
Ahh, I doubt that, I bet she is thinking of you while getting on with her daily life :)
What makes you think that she isn’t thinking of you and when do you get to see her next?
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
Ahh, I doubt that, I bet she is thinking of you while getting on with her daily life :)
What makes you think that she isn’t thinking of you and when do you get to see her next?
Don’t know how to answer the first one.
Who knows… maybe in a year. Maybe in 4 years. Maybe never. I hope she’ll wait.
When people say, “I’m so tired it’s not even funny” or “my head hurts so much it’s not even funny”, why would it even be funny in the first place?
Do stairs go up or down?
Why is there a top line on lined paper if we never use it?
Do coffins have lifetime guarantees?
Why do the numbers on phones go down while the numbers on calculators go up?
If Hooters were to become a door-to-door service would they have to change
their name to Knockers?
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
Ahh, I doubt that, I bet she is thinking of you while getting on with her daily life :)
What makes you think that she isn’t thinking of you and when do you get to see her next?Don’t know how to answer the first one.
Who knows… maybe in a year. Maybe in 4 years. Maybe never. I hope she’ll wait.
Well she must of given you some kind of reason to make you believe that she isn’t thinking of you..
Also, why don’t you know when you will next see here?
Are you in prison or something?
Happiness is watching your kids sleep and having some spare time to yourself ;)
Why isn’t phonetic spelled the way it sounds?
Why are there interstate highways in Hawaii?
Why are there flotation devices under plane seats instead of parachutes?
Why are cigarettes sold in gas stations when smoking is prohibited there?
Why do fat chance and slim chance mean the same thing?
If you can’t drink and drive, why do you need a driver’s license to buy liquor, and why do bars have parking lots?
Do you need a silencer if you are going to shoot a mime?
Have you ever imagined a world with no hypothetical situations?
How does the guy who drives the snowplow get to work in the mornings?
If 7-11 is open 24 hours a day, 365 days a year, why are there locks on the doors?
littlenick wrote:
When people say, “I’m so tired it’s not even funny” or “my head hurts so much it’s not even funny”, why would it even be funny in the first place?Do stairs go up or down?
Why is there a top line on lined paper if we never use it?
Do coffins have lifetime guarantees?
Why do the numbers on phones go down while the numbers on calculators go up?
If Hooters were to become a door-to-door service would they have to change
their name to Knockers?
LoL funny…
I use the first one alot lol, I always say “it’s not even funny” when I have a really bad pain, no idea why :S
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
Ahh, I doubt that, I bet she is thinking of you while getting on with her daily life :)
What makes you think that she isn’t thinking of you and when do you get to see her next?Don’t know how to answer the first one.
Who knows… maybe in a year. Maybe in 4 years. Maybe never. I hope she’ll wait.Well she must of given you some kind of reason to make you believe that she isn’t thinking of you..
Also, why don’t you know when you will next see here?
Are you in prison or something?
Not literally.
my happy thought my Halloween costumes is 90% ready!!! and its only 2 weeks away!!!
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
Ahh, I doubt that, I bet she is thinking of you while getting on with her daily life :)
What makes you think that she isn’t thinking of you and when do you get to see her next?Don’t know how to answer the first one.
Who knows… maybe in a year. Maybe in 4 years. Maybe never. I hope she’ll wait.Well she must of given you some kind of reason to make you believe that she isn’t thinking of you..
Also, why don’t you know when you will next see here?
Are you in prison or something?Not literally.
LoL ok your not answering anything not :O
Why don’t you know when you will see her?
[quote littlenick]Why
Why are there flotation devices under plane seats instead of parachutes?
GOOOOD question. I’ll think of that the next time I take a trip :/
Google image search baby bunnies :D that always makes me happy!!!
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
*paper~aeroplane* wrote:
*huggles*oooh cuddles and hugs in one giant huggles fest, neat, you pass!
:D
*huggles everything in sight*
*ets Littlenicks avatar*
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
What, that I thought you were stalking me on here?
LoL no, I was just jokeing :)Slipping away?
how’s that?
She is still your girlfriend though?You tell me and I will tell you how I just made a totaly tit out of myself, worth a laugh :D
Yes, I can’t explain it, but for a moment I felt like she thought about me, but then went back to her daily life.
Ahh, I doubt that, I bet she is thinking of you while getting on with her daily life :)
What makes you think that she isn’t thinking of you and when do you get to see her next?Don’t know how to answer the first one.
Who knows… maybe in a year. Maybe in 4 years. Maybe never. I hope she’ll wait.Well she must of given you some kind of reason to make you believe that she isn’t thinking of you..
Also, why don’t you know when you will next see here?
Are you in prison or something?Not literally.
LoL ok your not answering anything not :O
Why don’t you know when you will see her?
Because there’s no telling when the chance will come, and whether it’ll be too late.
The army in itself is not a prison, but it does hold you prisoner where I am.
*paper~aeroplane* wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
*paper~aeroplane* wrote:
*huggles*oooh cuddles and hugs in one giant huggles fest, neat, you pass!
:D
*huggles everything in sight*
*ets Littlenicks avatar*
LOL
Calm down!
You know what happens when nick gets involved ;)
Oh I see anon.
Well, depending on how long you have been together and age etc, my advice would be, next time away you get, go back, get engaged, marry and then she can live on base with you :)
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
*paper~aeroplane* wrote:
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
*paper~aeroplane* wrote:
*huggles*oooh cuddles and hugs in one giant huggles fest, neat, you pass!
:D
*huggles everything in sight*
*ets Littlenicks avatar*LOL
Calm down!
You know what happens when nick gets involved ;)
D: what happens?? what have i done???
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Oh I see anon.
Well, depending on how long you have been together and age etc, my advice would be, next time away you get, go back, get engaged, marry and then she can live on base with you :)
The army doesn’t permit such leaves. It’s three years free of freedom.
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
No holidays for 3 whole years? No leave no nothing?
2 days every 2 weeks. Not enough to get where I want.
littlenick wrote:
Don’t get me started!!!
I figured you were more like the energizer bunny, Nick. :D
Anonymous wrote:
A few thousands of kilometers.
No idea what that means lol
Thick as they come :D
Anyhow, what I am trying to say here is that she probably feels like she has been abandoned no matter how long this has been in the pipe line for and how long you have been out already.
Either accept to let go or do something about it :)
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
A few thousands of kilometers.No idea what that means lol
Thick as they come :DAnyhow, what I am trying to say here is that she probably feels like she has been abandoned no matter how long this has been in the pipe line for and how long you have been out already.
Either accept to let go or do something about it :)
What *can* I do? My hands are tied by the army. Not literally.
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Propose and get an on site wedding?
The army won’t let me cross the border for that wedding.
But you have an army site/camp/base where they are set up for near enough EVERYTHING
My nan and grandad got married that way and that’s how they moved about with him being in MI5 (I can say that now because he died :(
But still, look into everything, where there is a will there is a way.
My guess is that she is sulking because she feels like she is being cut out of your life, maybe just proposing will show her that you want/need her (only if your ready that is)
No, I serve in a base within my own country. I can’t change that.
That sounds like a good idea, if I can get to that stage.
I think she needs to feel like no matter what she will be appart of your life, she maybe trying to withdraw in order to save herself hurt if need be, even pretending to get on with life.
make efforts to show that your around for the long term (if you mean it)
Us women are complicated, we never mean what we say unless we mean it ;)
It’s not that she wants to withdraw. On the contrary, she keeps saying she’ll wait as long as I’ll need, but I’m finding that hard to believe.
Then maybe it is your issue to fight and not hers, you went away not her, she is waiting for you not the other way around, you thinking that way will no doubt end things the way you think they are going now just because you can’t believe someone can wait.
~LazyDaze~ wrote:
Then maybe it is your issue to fight and not hers, you went away not her, she is waiting for you not the other way around, you thinking that way will no doubt end things the way you think they are going now just because you can’t believe someone can wait.
Mandatory recruitment.
That second part is true… I don’t believe anyone can wait this long at their prime.
The the issue dear anon is in your head and you need to find a way to fix what’s going on with you before you lose things you didn’t have to lose.
The teenage granddaughter comes downstairs for her date with this see-through blouse on and no bra. Her grandmother just has a fit, telling her not to dare go out like that.
The teenager tells her “Loosen up Grams. These are modern times.
You gotta let your rosebuds show!” and out she goes.
The next day the teenager comes downstairs, and the grandmother is sitting there with no top on. The teenager wants to die.
She explains to her grandmother that she has friends coming over and that it is just not appropriate.
“Loosen up, sweetie. If you can show off your rosebuds, then I can display my hanging baskets.”
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