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I Want To Lose Weight…

…for myself, and for everything I do in life. It’s not that I care how other people see my body, it’s mostly how I myself feel in my body. And right now I feel like a big blob of over-weight mess. I don’t think I’m fat- I’m just pudgy [What my friends call ‘plump’ and my family calls ‘healthy’, both of which don’t make me feel any better at all.] I’m 5 foot 6 and close to 165 pounds. This is the most I have ever weighed in my life. I’m around the pants size of an 11 and I have been ranging between sizes 9-11 since- no joke- the fifth grade. And I’m tired of not being able to do something right for my body. The only problem is that it’s hard to know how to go about it. I cannot research answers online because all I find is a bunch of ads for weight loss pills and a diet plan that urges me to special-order food. I don’t have the money for that or the trust enough to swallow pills that will probably make me wig-out. And world knows I’m not going to starve myself- the last time I did that I got to my ideal pants size, a size 7 [133.2 pounds], but I was too out of my head from not eating that I didn’t care how much weight I had lost, or about anything else for that matter. So not eating is out of the picture as well.

Since I cannot ask family or friends for advice on this subject [considering they think I’m ‘healthy’], since I cannot find answers on the internet, and since I don’t think it wise to become annorexic again, I deided to come here so I may be able to talk to real people. Any suggestions?

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

You’re fine. Just short.

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halloweenqueen offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 152 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (31 minutes after post)

Go with the GI diet. Healthy, easy, tasty, no starving. Recipes and background available online. Good luck!

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best2defr offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (53 minutes after post)

That’s true. You don’t need to lose weight.

However. If you really want to do it.

1) No pills, no Atkins, no fad diets.
2) Figure out how many calories you eat by step 3 & 4.
3) Keep track every calorie you eat… every cookie, every apple, everything.
4) Everything you eat should have a label that tells you how many calories are
contained per serving. If you eat out, look at the restaurant’s website - most
will have caloric information for their food.
5) Figure out how many calories you burn.
6) Look into something like “Body Bug” It’s a gizmo you attach to your arm that
monitors your body to calculate how many calories you burn. Christmas is coming
up soon - it might be something you can put on your X-mas list.
7) Weight loss happens when you burn more calories than you eat.
8) Do not achieve weight loss by reducing calorie intake alone. Increase physical
activity to help burn more calories than you eat.
9) Understand how many calories you body needs per day (family doc can help) Do
not overdo it. Family doc can also get your family to help support you.
10) Do not expect weight loss to happen overnight. Take little steps. Set small
goals.
11) Stop asking your family for advice. Instead, ask them for support. Ask them
support you when you order a salad instead of a steak. Tell them this is
important to you. Tell them you know you don’t need to lose weight - you want
to lose weight.
12) And finally, give yourself a break from time to time. Give yourself one day
a week for your calories burned = calories you eat.

Hope this helps. Remember, no pills, no fad diets. You can do this yourself.
Figure out what physical activities you like. You don’t need a gym membership or
fancy exercise equipment (though they can help with motivation).

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