Love help: i lost my wife to crack. - Help.com

Instead of saying why god, try saying im ready for you god. don’t curse god, find god and realize that through god everything can be well. Pray that he will give you a better wife, or that she finds the errors of her ways and she will change her ways. No person can change someone except themselves and god.
I’m sorry about your situation but be happy that your kids are healthy and you have a roof over their heads. thank the lord everyday for that.
God is always willing to listen, you need to talk to him to see change happen. if you don’t ask he can’t change anything.
I have and will pray for you my friend.
God Bless

I cannot speak for god. Thats sounds like something that you need to talk to him about. However god is a good god. My experience has lead me to believe that if she had stayed with you she would have brought you down with her. god was protecting you from the devil and his evil ways. If she would have stayed with you she may have stole from you or your kids, or even worse got busted at home then your kids would be taken to a foster care.
God does not do things to hurt us. He does things to help us even when they seem like they hurt us.
God still loves you and loves your family.
As for every kid needing a mother, every kid needs god and thats why they have been so calm about the situation. God has put it on their hearts to remain calm to help you out.
He left you with three kids cause he did not want to see their lives ruined by their mother or without their father.
She sees the devil cause she is doing all the devil wants her to do. Abandon her family, abandon her health, abandon God. But with prayer and Gods help he can make her see that she doesn’t need mindless drugs and that she lost the love of her life and her wonderful children.
God has a plan for you, please be strong through the rough times. I know you can, more importantly God knows you can.
God Bless, Stay Faithful my friend

Well thats all i try to do is help. glad to hear it is working. See if she has stuck around there was no telling what horrible thing she might have done. God works in ways that we may never understand but he will always do it to better ourselves and our situations. Yes watching a child grow is magical and now they can grow up to be a respected, nice person such as yourself. You know how to do those things cause god put them there so your kids can grow up with a knowledgable father. I believe so, he does things or put things in our souls that make no sense at all but they are still there for a reason. It may take some time before we may even need to use them but they are still there for a reason. I cannot answer about if the churches are all the same gods but most likely yes. Just try one if you don’t like it try another one in the weeks to come until you go to one and it feels like home and you understand what the pastor is preaching. As for clothing, God does not care what you wear. He sees your heart and he is glad to see you in his house. Yes you just walk in and sit anywhere that feels comfortable to you. there are never any assigned seating. Just listen and hear what the pastor is saying about god. That He loves you and is waiting to hear from you about every and anything. God is the creator of the universe. He made all of us and all that we are. And yes the kindness in your neighbor is part of it, now aren’t you ready to be that kind neighbor? Have you read the bible? if not i suggest getting one and reading it. That is the way to get to know god. And trust me, he is worth getting to know. As for the middle ages, He saw all they did and believe me they are not in heaven right now. He sees all and on judgement day they will be judged for all they did, even in secret.
Good Luck my friend