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ok, me and my friends boyfriend we started an affair like a month ago.
it started out with me taking a drive one day, dave* was walking down the street and he saw me and flagged me down, so being a good friend of his i stopped and turned around to see what he wanted. we got talking and asked me if i could drive him to a friends, went there. then i was like now what, he asked me if i wanted to go fishing with some other friends so i was game for it. we picked up a 12 pack and headed out to the river, (that should have been my first clue he had other plans…no fishing gear)so we got there, no one there but we sat around talked and drank beer. then out of the blue he tells me he really likes me. i was at first shocked and felt uncomfortable. he told me since the first day he met me out at the ranch he had a huge crush on me. i was like holy sh*t that was 4 years ago when i first met him and his friends. it made alot of senses because i used to always catch him checking me out whenever i bent over to pick up something or wearing a low cut shirt. and i just brushed it off because being a guy he was “just looking”. eventually we ended up having sex in the backseat of my car. since then we have hooked up several times. we even left our town and went to diff places where no one will reconize us. if i was at daves house and karen* (my friend)was there but he was not, i tell karen i had to go. i would go to the bar and see if he is there, and he would be, he was usually with a friend but we kept it cool acted like plain friends. recently though me and my friend carla* went to the bar he was there with his buddy kane* we flirted with each other, but so did carla. of course i flirted with kane so he did not make anything out of it. at one point of the night he told me for us to leave told him to go to my car and wait for me. when carla and kane asked where dave went i said he went home. so they were ok. so i went to my car, then i seen carlas truck pull out in front of us. me and dave were like oh f**k she did not see did she. we brushed it off because it was dark so we figured she did not see nothing, we left the bar and did the deed in my car once again.
but a few days later carla asked me straight out if i f**ked him. at first i denied anything, then she told me that she saw dave in my car. and all the leg rubbing, and boobie checks something was up. so i just confessed. she was not mad at all.(keep in mind carla and karen hate each other) she just said its about time someone is trying to get dave away from karen. keep in mind karen is a real ***** to dave, puts him down. freaks out if she sees one beer beside him. she will start arguements in front of anyone, does not matter who is around…friends or strangers. karen and dave have a 2 yr together, everytime he attempts to leave she uses the baby against him threatening he will not see his son again if he walks out the door. karen is very much emotionally abuse to dave. anyone who is friends with karen and dave witnessed the arguements one too many times,just airs out their dirty laundry for everyone to see. how the arguements go like she is abused one and all innocent, everyone knows that. so all of us are aware how she is with dave, we all feel sorry for dave. ppl have told dave to walk he can find someone who actually cares for him. karen wants him to leave or she walks but wont let him see their son.
anyways after a brief history lesson, my problem is this i want dave to leave karen (and so does everyone else) but she is a friend of mine regardless if she is a cold hearted *****. either way i know i will lose our friendship cause i was sleeping with him and for the fact i want him after she is done with him.
after hooking up a few times i began to like him before i had no interest in him at all. but i keep my distance when i am at their house. everyone knows, karen and dave that their relationship was done long ago. like dave told me his relationship for the last 2 yrs is a job, hates it but does it anyways.
so now i dont know if i should tell dave its over. or wait for karen and dave to break up. either way i messed up my relationship with karen. yes i know i should not have even started this, and she will hate me forever.
*names were changed
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