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I know this seems like the biggest thing in the world right now, but you know what? It isn’t. People are dying, starving, going without fresh water, medical attention, losing limbs to land mines elsewhere in the world. S

tep back for a second and tell yourself.

“The only “A” I need to focus on right now is the ones on my report card.”

If you do that, guess what? You’ll go away to a good university where all of this, every single moment that you’re complaining about, will seem like nothing more than intestinal gas.

Good luck.

Just ignore him… totally…. he’ll get the message and stop messing you around.

Sounds to me like “A” is a jerk. He liked what he couldn’t have…you when you were with someone else. Once he successfully pulled you away from the other guy, he lost interest….though not ALL interest, as it seems he has the intention of keeping you ‘on the line’ in case he decides he needs you.

He asks who you fancy b/c he wants to be a dominant male or something and ‘get you away….’ IDK, that may be some sort of philosophical thinking, but could also be true.

As for texting you: anyone who you spend lots of time with and are involved with (for healthy OR unhealthy reasons) will text you.

As for giving you his coat when it rains: anyone who is a half way decent human being will offer their coat to someone else…usually hoping they won’t accept :p Not really an indicator of true love

Move on.

I agree with what was said before, giving the coat in the rain is just what anyone with half a heart would do. also he keeps on hugging you and leading you on because he needs someone to do it and considering you keep going back to him even after everything he has already done to you. he knows you’ll be there for that time of need.
What you are going to have to realize is that there is someone special for you that will treat you with respect and make you happy no matter what the situation. it may take years to even meet that person or they might be right under your nose.
This guy just sounds like a leading on, controling, lonely jerk. You deserve way better then that.
Realize that he nor the relationship controls your life but you control your life, your partner, and your eating habits. If you get upset write some lyrics or maybe paint something. If your angry a punching bag works wonders or simply working out (and yes taking a walk is a workout).