girl help: so tommorow i have hockey with my guy team .I am the only girl.This

smartikles31

so tommorow i have hockey with my guy team .I am the

only girl.This boy at school who i liked in the beginning of the year started asking me stuff about it.When i told him about likethe locker room scene and how their is more drama on my guys team then my girls team he just got stuck on the fact how i am practically around my guy team to much .I was confused . Why did he keep bringing it up ? i am girly at school but every now and then wear team things to school .I guess he thought i was wearing a guys hockey coat. and i was someone’s girlfriend,i was offeneded.I was mad that he setero typed me. But does that mean he did like me before and thought i was off limits?Does wearing my hockey coat or jersey send a weird message to guys ? I liked him for like 2 or 3 weeks then decided nothing would ever happen and moved on .Lots of guys always seem to think of me as the hockey girl . Lots of people said guys liked me but couldn’t get over the fact that i was always with lots of guys for hockey!Why do guys think that because i hang with guys that they wouldn’t be able to trust me ?And does it seem weird how the boy i liked in the beginnig of the school year all of a sudden talks to me once he found out i was the owner of the coat

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Morally Ambiguous JD 101 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Men are frightened of women, we are frightene dof the power that women have over us. Every man is as insecure and uncertain when aproaching a woman because we have no idea how to talk to you, how to aproach you or if you are taken, a ***** or a lesbian.

When we aproach you our minds are going at 100 miles a minute, trying to think of what to say without sounding cliched, like a pervert or imitating our fathers. We think about the incoming rejection how we take it and act cool or what to do in the unlikely situation you are single, intersted in him and friendly then we really get worried, will i seem to clingy, should i buy her a drink or will that seem like i want to sleep with her, did i brush my teath? should i tell her shes pretty? should i touch her hand? is that too much?

At the end of the day men are absolutley terrified of you, and very insecure so when you are haning around with alot of men we would assume that one or more of those men are more atractive than us, someone you like better than us someone you share a common interest with… It never occurs that we might just have a chance.

He probably likes you but feels threatened by all the other guys who probably like you or potentialy like you, or you like. If you like him then show him lol

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slimmmerman 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (22 minutes after post)

A lot of boys are insecure about their girlfriend being around a lot of other boys especially in this situation. Their insecurity will be their downfall if they hope to date you. It is a matter of trust and if they don’t trust you then thats another problem. You are going to have to find someone you can get to know better as friends so that they can learn and know that they can trust you before you date them.

I think a part of that trust is that most boys and quite a few men don’t believe that men and women can be just friends. A part of that is because most boys just want to get into the pants of most girls so if they are like that they have difficulty believing that all men are not like that.

Good luck and have a great season!

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Sir Tannen 138 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

/facepalm

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smartikles31 26 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

thank guys :) u have helped alot.. i just hpe that this season goes good. haaa i am the goalie so it depends if my head is in the game or if i keep thinking about this boy which i know i hsouldn’t but it bothered me how he reacted to finding out i played with guys. it probably doesnt help that i brag about being around hot or cute guys all the time. but nothing ever happens with my guys on my team they r my friends that is it .i do talk about the guys alot to my girl friends but never to guys at school. i should stop talking like that so much .lol . i mean i wont lie i have had things with team mates before but that was 2 years ago and idont want to wreck my team so i normally stay away from having to do with guys on my team in that kind of relationship. i guess the guys dont understnad that when i step on the ice they r my team mates . Most people at school know i amnot a ++++. so maybe with me talking about thee cute boys and stuff is a big no .

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