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how do you act if your best friend didn’t move when you needed him the most?

it’s not because he don’t care about you specifically, but just he don’t care about anything and he don’t know what to do pretty much all the time.

well I’ve been that friend. what do you think you will act to me if i did that to you?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

honestly? if you’re fun to be with, i’d still hang out with you and have fun - but i wouldn’t call you a friend.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Move? Is in to another apartment?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

no i meant make a move or doing something

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (30 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
honestly? if you’re fun to be with, i’d still hang out with you and have fun - but i wouldn’t call you a friend.

well appreciate your honesty , and it’s pretty much happened except the fun part cause we can’t really talk after this.

i really don’t wanna lose him, couldn’t lose him. but i guess it’s already done.

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

sounds like it.

would you do things differently if you were faced with the situation again?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (41 minutes after post)

i will be surely not the same at all. i mean i will do anything to be a man of acting.

but i doubt i will make such friendship again with anyone.
what an idiot was me, such a loss.

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (59 minutes after post)

live and learn. try not to make the same mistake twice.

anyway, best you can do now is let him know just that. call him, tell him you’re sorry, and would like to make amends. maybe it’s too late, maybe it’s not - you don’t know until you try. you will not just ‘get’ his trust and friendship back, you’ll have to earn it again.

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (13 hours, 15 minutes after post)

you know what, maybe you are right.

thank u.

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