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What do you think your bf/gf talk to girls/guys on Facebook?

My bf and I broke up a week ago and he confessed that he checked up girls on Facebook and sent them msg after 1.5 months we started dating.
At that time, we were already officially bf and gf. I could not believe it.
He said he didn meet any of the girls but he also confessed that he checked up girls on FB a month ago.
And he lied that he has not done such things. But he confessed anw.

I take this serisouly because it is kinda weakness of the person who cannot face the problem in a relationship and go to other girls/boys.
Why do ppl do this?

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

because they’re still kids. adults still do this too, but they don’t come crying on help over it.

boys will be boys. we will always check out other girls. doesn’t mean we don’t love you.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

True, boys will deffinately be boys. But checking out other girls is one thing but talking/ messaging them is a different story. First of all whatd he say to them? If it was like “hi how are you” then whatever thats just smalltalk but if theyre talking about meeting and hooking up and stuff like that I consider that a form of cheating. (Cuz you kno he wouldnt want you talking to some guy like that). At least he had the guts to confess tho you gotta give him that at least. I think you should ask him why he feels the need to talk to other girls, maybe you guys can fix this so he wont feel like he wants to do that anymore. Remember, communication is key.

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