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i neeedd som advice pleasee =(

ok soo i have a boyfriend of 3 years now and things are going great, i mean we kinda fight a lot and when he gets mad he says mean hurtfull things to me. well the problem iss i think i might be in love with my bestfriend, he likes me too but he’s kinda mad at me because he asked me too chill with him and asked me if i willl kiss him and i said noo cause i can’t do that to my boyfriend , i reallly like my friend but i love my boyfriend , i can’t geet rid of these feeelings for my friend

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kenrevi offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

it’s your decision.

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Fuzzy Pepper offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 66 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Your bf might not be so good for you if he is saying mean and hurtful things….usually that right is reserved for after marriage :/

Reslin offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

I’ve been on your boyfriend’s side in this situation. It’s a very confusing and complicated place to be and you have my deepest sympathy for your situation. I don’t think your best friend should be trying to push you like that though =( that’s not cool. Personally I’d try to wait it out a bit longer, these could be real feelings of love or it could also be a crush of sorts which might fade a way, see if they develop.

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 Add Friend #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

lol pepper, “usually that right is reserved for after marriage”

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Fuzzy Pepper offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 66 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

SirTannen wrote:
lol pepper, “usually that right is reserved for after marriage”

:)

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