i recently broke up with my boyfriend because he was too timid - Help.com

*chuckles*

welcome to human nature lovey!

“you only know what you have got when you have lost it”

“you always want what you can’t have”

and also, lets not forget the self destructive nature of most of us!

Look in within yourself, and decide on how much of a tit you have just been, and then, once you have decided on that, decide if you can prevent yourself (if required!) being that much of a tit again

and act accordingly!

“making a mistake isn’t stupid - failing to learn by it is”

Have fun ;)

SlightlyUnique wrote:
*chuckles*

welcome to human nature lovey!

“you only know what you have got when you have lost it”

“you always want what you can’t have”

and also, lets not forget the self destructive nature of most of us!

Look in within yourself, and decide on how much of a tit you have just been, and then, once you have decided on that, decide if you can prevent yourself (if required!) being that much of a tit again

and act accordingly!

“making a mistake isn’t stupid - failing to learn by it is”

Have fun ;)

that’s great advice, thanks x

Hey… Listen a relation ship has its ups and downs…

Spontaneous decisions are the ones that are wrong most of the time.. My suggestion to you think about it… Think about the reason that caused you to break up with him… Is it worth your break up… When coming to make a decision like this always think of the good times and the bad times… If its not meant to work out it will not work out… Maybe this is your first time breaking up with someone…
Take it easily and think about your decision.

What good can come out of your decision
what bad can come out of your decision

Just remember that you still have a whole life ahead of you and that there are plenty of fish in the water… I hope your decision is for your best.

I agree with SlightlyUnique….
Well, whatever you do, ….all the answer you need is inside yourself and only you know well about him than anyone else and take your time and think well…evn if u did made a mistake, i jst hope, its not too late to fix it, or if u think its right…..well, i guess…..nothing to say.

And the same time, finding someone(again) to love is easy when time passes away…..(it will hurt when you try to move only in the beginning), then…it won’t..,but, finding someone to love you with true understand and caring which is important(which is hard to find these days), …..every relation has its down side and weakness…..and ther is a reason why he is timid…help him to overcome…not by breaking it,(if you/he loved each other in true way)…..
Whatever you do,…, feel it from your heart and not by your mind and then do it!

i’d say wait 2weeks and decide then whether you want him back or not.

just because you miss him doesn’t mean you should lower your standards when it comes to finding what you want in a boyfriend.

Maybe yere meant to be together and you’ll realize that soon.

Or then again maybe yere completely unsuited and romance is just around the corner!

Isn’t the poor guy going to be more timid now? :(

Anonymous wrote:
Isn’t the poor guy going to be more timid now? :(

i don’t know, i’ve been talking to him and he seems like his normal self

I wouldn break up with someone just because they’re timid :( If I love him that’s what matters. :)