boyfriend help: nearly 3years and still not over him..

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nearly 3years and still not over him..

Help me please?? Am i weird? I’m with my current boyfriend 4 nearly three years, i do love him, but the last boyfriend i had just before him.. we had alot of chemistry, even though we were so young. My current boyfriend is good looking etc.. but the last guy and me.. i just can’t stop thinking about him basically. He lives three doors down from me so that might be why i never got over him, he’s quiet and not good-looking, but theres just something about him . On and off for the last 3years i keep replaying that last kiss in my head. We texted over the summer on one occasion as just friends, and every time the phone beeped my heart jumped. He hasn’t had any girlfriends since me.. Another reason why i didn’t have a chance to get over him. WHAT AM I GOING TO DO?? :(

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mbernstein82 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (12 minutes after post)

How long did you guys date?

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partyintheus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

only like 3months.. then constant flirting, and then stayed up v late just talking and kissing, then i broke it off cause i was young and didnt really realize how much he adored me n stuff…

Help me with: BEBO PROBLEM HELP ..k i just ticked the wrong box on this guy that im friends with on bebo-really embarrassing thought it

Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (20 minutes after post)

in 3 months you didn’t get to know the full him, i’m still interested in this guy i saw for about 3 months but i think its just that my mind has idealised him!

mbernstein82 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

Three months compared to three years is not that big of a deal. I would try becoming closer with your current bf. Maybe be a bit more intimate.

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partyintheus 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

ya i no what u mean about idealising him alright..but i actually think i’m fullon in love with him..! Knew him 4 years because we were childhood friends but always hadda crush on eachother..freaks me out cause i have a lovely boyfriend but all i cant think about is him!

Help me with: BEBO PROBLEM HELP ..k i just ticked the wrong box on this guy that im friends with on bebo-really embarrassing thought it

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

you love him still. you have a comfotable relationship and you LIKE him, you love the other guy, it could be that you jus arent over him, that you never really finished the greiving process. the fact that you relay that last kiss means that a comfotable time for you was when you were with him. I like to believe that everyone has a soul mate, and he might be yours.

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