How to tell my parents

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How to tell my parents

I am dating this guy, and it’s going really great. My birthday is tomorrow and I’ll be turning 18. He turns 22 in a week and a half. I haven’t told my parents I’m dating anyone. I know they’re not going to be happy. And I’m really scared they’ll put there foot down and tell me I can’t date him, which can not happen. I like him too much. I want to be strong and tell them that I’m an adult and I’ll date who I want, but I know taht when I get in front of them and we start fighting I’ll turn into a coward. I’d much rather just keep hiding it, but I know that’s wrong. And I want them to know. I just don’t know how to tell them. And should I tell my mom first, and then my dad?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (17 minutes after post)

well i am not sure what to say but iwill invite some people i think can help to read your post if that is ok :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 20 minutes after post)

That’s great! Thanks =)

Gape 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 46 minutes after post)

Why would you fight with your parents over this? That’s a pretty stupid thing to get in a fight over. If you’re 18 tomorrow then you are an adult and you no longer have to listen to your parents. You of course still have to follow their rules if you want to live under their roof, but you can move out. Just stay calm. Don’t yell. People yell way to much these days and it gets them nowhere.

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vivzofwale 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 hours, 50 minutes after post)

i think they’ll find out eventually. so better tell them now. they may get pissed but i’m pretty sure deep inside they appreciate the honesty and trust that you give them. :)

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