work help: my bf wants to get married.

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my bf wants to get married.

he makes enough that i don’t have to work, and he’s told me he would be happy with this in exchange for a warm dinner when he comes home. he wants a housewife, yet that wasn’t really one of my goals by any means. he’ll be there to support me reguardless of what i want, but working if/when i don’t have to….is that stupid? should i just not work and enjoy it?

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Sir Tannen 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Cooking once a night in exchange for money sounds like a sweet deal.

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Richard Cor de Lyon 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I don’t think any woman should surrender who she wants to be for the sake of a man.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

i didn’t say i was going to do it, and i’m not getting $ in exchange, just a home to live in etc. it’s not his requirement or anything, just likes the idea. i don’t want to stop working either but a vacation or chance to do just a part time and further my career is awesome.

Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (35 minutes after post)

well tell him u want to work, maybe u can find a job that u can get home at 5 to cok dinner for him

ℓινιηg4уσυ 1,007 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 hours, 14 minutes after post)

Just find a job…that you dont work till night and that you will have a chance to cook for him..

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (4 hours, 28 minutes after post)

i’ll continue working and we agreed to split up the homely chores so it’ll be ok. whatever $ i make i’ll help my family out w/ and/or continue w/ college. depends what kind of job i have at that time and place; as of right now i have a call center job-they’re open 24/7 and i get in when he’s getting out. technically i can leave dinner ready for him when he gets home; not going to kill myself over it though-he’s just as capable.

Sir Tannen 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 hours, 30 minutes after post)

Unless he is cooking disabled.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (4 hours, 31 minutes after post)

nope, he survived this long. if he’s not satisfied w/ that he can always learn.

Abba Zabba 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (8 hours, 38 minutes after post)

If that is what you want, then go for it.

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