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Hey everybody..

I have this boyfriend, we’ve been together for almost a year now. We had some problems 6 months ago with him being indifferent towards me and he also stopped writing me, because I wanted it to be more serious than he wanted. then we split up for about a month, but he wanted to get back together. At first I didn’t want to, but he had really changed, and the past 5 months has been absolutely amazing! But suddenly, he stopped writing me again. with no reason at all. He’s in the army and I don’t know if they got some extra duties or what. I just think it’s weird, and i don’t want it to back to the way it was before. I really don’t know what to do or how to react at this point. Help?

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Sir Tannen 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Maybe he died?

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mille_mus1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

come on, dude..

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Sir Tannen 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

That sort of thing happens you know, or else they would not need to keep getting new recruits.

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courtybubble 189 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

SirTannen wrote:
Maybe he died?

lol, ever the optimist haha.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 22 minutes after post)

SirTannen wrote:
Maybe he died?

wtf! can you call and check somehow?

courtybubble 189 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

well yea, all you need to do is ring the base he is stationed at and ask.

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ninjabunny11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

Maybe he ‘changed’ because he got lonely and knew you would be around. I’ve heard it can be really lonely to be in the Army, I mean they have a lot of other people around but there is this whole tough don’t show your emotions thing and everyone needs a little bit of time to express their feelings and tender side. Long distance relationships are hard enough without the added pressure of stress that can be caused by being in the Army, it’s a totally different way of life and some people are totally cut out for it but most have troubles adjusting and keeping hold of what they left at home. Number one thing is to not let someone treat you badly, you deserve much better. It’s hard to believe that he is so so so busy that he can’t even write a single line or give you a quick call or anything, and if he did go away on some training or something he’ll write you as soon as he gets back. So give him a little time but don’t let anyone ever make you feel like you’re not good enough because you rock and deserve someone who can see that from any distance.

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