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Why would I tend to attract guys like this?

I’m in college right now and I’ve realised that the guys that usually show interest in me tend to be the really sociable and out there types and they tend to be extroverted of varying degrees, like they participate alot in class discussions, friendly and very happening basically. Some of them are involved in popular club activities and have lots of females around them.

Hmm, im not exactly quiet or outspoken, i dont participate alot in class and i dont hang around the “popular” people. i socialise, but i rather stick to my own grp of close friends anytime. im really not drop dead gorgeous.

yet when these guys show their interest in me, they are very shy abt it! like they would look alot or like hang around my vicinity.some might help me with things. but never approaching me to talk. =/ am i giving off some wrong sort of vibe?

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe you’re scary.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (23 minutes after post)

hmm. maybe. ive been told i look unavailable/unapproachable. but these guys do see me in situations where im having fun and laughing with ppl.

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (24 minutes after post)

Maybe they’re shy of you?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (27 minutes after post)

i guess so. only possible explanation eh.

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (28 minutes after post)

Yup. ^_^

Well anonymous dear, the sun is coming up and I have swine flu, so I shall take my leave now. G’night.

Sorry I couldn’t of helped more lol.

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (30 minutes after post)

hhaha. thanks though. and take care.

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

You too ^_^

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (38 minutes after post)

Speaking of sick, have you seen any helpful robots around here’?

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Anonymous #
1 month, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

helpful robots? meaning?

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