boyfriend help: I’m jealous about the time my boyfriend spends with his friends. - Help.com

sounds like you have a chronic lack of self esteem and respect.
try working on that. should resolve most of the other issues, because youll get the confidence to talk to him about your feelings, rather than just try pleasing him, and youll realise your own worth and how you should actually be treated in a relationship. and if he doesnt measure up you wont have a problem moving on.

In my rel..i dont want friend..
its better with no friend..beacuse you will walk better with your bf.

O_o say what?
thats the weirdest thing ive ever heard

thank you for your advice, even though I did not really catch that..

courtybubble, thank you for your advice. Do you think I’m being a jealous ***** for expecting more from my boyfriend? I need to talk to him but I dont know how to start..

no, i dont think in the instance where youre waiting around for him till the last minute to find out whats going on that youre being jealous.
there is a fine line, he does have the right to hang with his friends, but he also needs to treat you with respect. i think the next time he makes you wait like that, bring it up then.
do you hang out with him and his friends much?

No. I dont really hang out with him and his friends. The last thing I would want him to do is not seeing his friends, but it is so annoying to always be second place on the weekends, it makes me feel like I’m filling in gaps and I dont like that. I just dont know how to formulate what I want to say. It’s like, I’m seeing him tomorrow but I dont know what to say or how to start. Cause he thinks our relationship is brilliant (which sometimes it is) but he thinks that because I dont speak my mind. Thank you

well, it is because you dont speak your mind lol.
just blurt it out, tell him how you feel.