i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and im really nervous around him but he isnt nervous at all i need help? - Help.com

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i have been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and im really nervous around him but he isnt nervous at all i need help?


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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

what are you afraid of??

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jadeeeeeeeee offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (10 minutes after post)

i dont know its just like, well to be honest everything, im scared i wont look nice enough or just what i say hell be like what the hell and im scared hell go off me.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (18 minutes after post)

Has he given you reason to feel this way? Does he yell at you, or insult you or demean you in the things you do?

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jadeeeeeeeee offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

No not at all, all he does is show love towards me but i am scared that will change if i just be myself.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (46 minutes after post)

well… usually it all changes if you DON’T just be yourself. Do you always exhibit low self esteem or confidence, or is it only with your boyfriend?

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jadeeeeeeeee offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (18 hours, 56 minutes after post)

only with my boyfriend. with other people i dont care what they think about me.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (20 hours, 45 minutes after post)

Ok… as you know, you need to get over this fear. He’s done nothing to make you suspect he’d dump you… He’s chosen you, that has to mean something to you. He WANTS you, not someone else. The fact is, because you are living with this fear, you are doing things right now that you feel HE wants. It’s OK to please a partner, but not at the expense of our Self. We must always be the person we are. If you alter yourself to be the best image of what you think he wants that image will eventually fade, then he’ll be left to say one day; “I don’t even know who you are anymore!” Be yourself. You are a pretty, confident woman - you know this - he chose you because of this. I’d like you to read my most current post … http://help.com/post/322381-the-battl…

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jadeeeeeeeee offline Verified User (1 month, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 days, 18 hours after post)

okay thankyou for the advice, ill try this i just have to get over it, theres just something in my mind thats making me think he doesnt want me. thanks again.

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