friend help: WHY HIM

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WHY HIM

i was just told that my friend killed himself. he had enough he had real abuseive parents. i tried to help him. i wanted him to come to my house last m=night but he told me he had other planes. he wrote me a letter i am to upset to read it. we promised that we would stay sstrong for each other. idk what to do know do i end my life? i am so confussed. please help me

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Genesis721 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (51 minutes after post)

I am so very sorry about your friend. This just tugs at anyone’s heart why a person decides to take their own lives.

You shouldn’t even consider taking yours. It will solve nothing. You could do things to help honor your friends life by joining a group that deals with suicide. Perhaps your words and your story about your friend will change someone else’s mind that is considering suicide.

I don’t think your friend, would have wanted you to do yourself in because he/she was extremely unhappy. Often times they just can’t see any out of their situation and decide that the extreme of doing oneself in is best.

The world does have good people in it, people who are willing to help. Please stay with us, we do care.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (59 minutes after post)

Sorry to everyone that I, shouted my computer is moving as a snail’s pace tonight. Please forgive me. Thanks, Genesis

Cell 54 #
Winnipeg, MB, CA | 1 month ago (2 hours, 47 minutes after post)

Please don’t harm yourself!

I’m so sorry about your friend!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (11 hours, 32 minutes after post)

Cell wrote:
Please don’t harm yourself!

I’m so sorry about your friend!

Move on..
pray for your friend..
And please dont harm your self.

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4 weeks, 1 day ago (1 week after post)

I’m sorry about your friend. One of my friends killed himself a few years ago. Afterward I didn’t know what to do. I got into cutting and self-harm and a few suicide attempts as well. I wasn’t thinking of anything other then how much I was hurting. But then I started thinking about him more and realized that I shouldn’t be doing this. He wouldn’t have wanted me to waste away just because he wasn’t there anymore. I thought about how he’d want me to live. He’d want me happy even though he couldn’t me.

I want you to know that things will get better. I’m not telling you to forget him, block him out. Grieve his death, but not forever. You’ll have to get up and start living your life again. He wouldn’t want you to waste away to nothing.

It’ll be okay. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, or even a month from now. But one day, it’ll be okay. You’ll make it.

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