Love help: The other day it came to my attention that my boyfriend was using - Help.com

He may not be cheating on you yet but the idea he can is obviously in his head…. there is only one reason you use dating sites and that is to find someone to have a fling/relationship with. I met my partner on a dating site and it took me months to convince him i was very unhappy with him refusing to delete his account once we started a relationship…. my account was immediately deleted. He eventually did delete the account but i caught him months later using the same site under a different name…. He reeled off every excuse he could for going back on…. chatting on the forums( he had never posted on any of them), just having a look for a laugh, just catching up with other people he had chatted to when he had been on there the first time, it didn’t mean anything, he loved me….. When i asked how he would feel if i did the same he said it wouldn’t bother him… so i put up a profile…. with his full knowledge…. i didn’t actually speak to anyone but within two days my partner was asking who i was chatting to, what was i chatting about etc…. he didn’t like it one bit. He agreed that he didn’t like the idea of me being able to chat to men at any time… just the thought of it would drive him mad…so i deleted the account assuming my point had been made… two weeks later he was back online again…It’s an awful thing to have to come to terms with but dating sites have made it so easy to cheat… it doesn’t even have to be physically cheating…. there is something wrong with your partner emotionally connecting with another person.

I would personally tell your partner that you won’t stand for it anymore… but i don’t think you can trust him not to use the sites again which means you have to decide if you want to be with a man you can’t trust.

First off never apologize for getting something off your chest. No matter how it takes to vent it, it will always feel better to get it off. even to a stranger. You are not wrong for sending a red flag up about that site and what it says. Any human with half a brain would have sent up a red flag. It really boils down to weather you trust him or not. Don’t apologize for being concerned about the relationship. Ask him to honestly tell you how he feels. about the relationship about you about your future together. there is no point in wasting time with someone you cannot trust cause thats what a relationship is.
Good Luck my friend

youre being taken for a ride girl.
why are you letting him treat you like this? you KNOW its not ok, think about what you would say to a friend in this situation. you most certainly wouldnt want them to be with someone who would treat them with so little respect, im sure.