just ignore it. make new friends or stick to brooke if you still talk.
but yeh def ignore Lauren, she sounds like a sad *****.
Jeebus, these people sound like they suck.
I’d say bail, the older you get the harder it is to make close friends. Don’t waste time on crappy people. It’s not terribly hard to find a group of people that will truly care about eachother, want to see eachother succeed, and won’t stab eachother in the back on a whim.
Summer Rain wrote:
just ignore it. make new friends or stick to brooke if you still talk.
but yeh def ignore Lauren, she sounds like a sad *****.
i cant. i never really see anyone outside my class, and in my class ve done irreplacible damage 2 everyone. they know me and dont want to be my friend
Coalesce wrote:
Jeebus, these people sound like they suck.
I’d say bail, the older you get the harder it is to make close friends. Don’t waste time on crappy people. It’s not terribly hard to find a group of people that will truly care about eachother, want to see eachother succeed, and won’t stab eachother in the back on a whim.
it is in my class…like i said to the other person,any one in my class knows me,so they doint want to be my friend,and i never really see anyone outside my class
I can see wat ur both saying,but i cant. there are 2 new people in my class so im friends with them,kinda. but one of thems a guy, a guy everyone kinda hates, and the other stupid Lauren ALREADY IS FRIENDS WITH. I actually explained this to the new kid, Ev, but she said ‘best friends happen instantly’ so she obviously doenst know Lauren that good.but shes really nice and i tried to be nice to her, but since shes friends with Lauren, its only a matter of time B4 she hates me 2. good news is, I do have some other friends outside class. At lunch, I could sit next to Debra and her friends, at the morning assembly and the afternoon assembly I could sit with Rachel, in chorus thee really no place for friends,but ther is BRE BRE (yay!) sits next to me and so does Rachel. Also,at PE I have 2 kids that no one really likes ( I always atract the freaks) and at computers the kids I sit nxt to R my friends. infact, computer class I am the popular kid, and I think Lauren mite be a lil hated. IDK with Lauren its all posible. but anyway, so except or Math,science and LA I have other frieds. but there not in my class, and I really think all girls need a bff
If your choices are (a) be friends with crappy people, or (b) don’t be friends with crappy people, I recommend (b).
Try meeting people outside of school? Perhaps at a library, music-shop, video-store, art gallery, wherever your interests are.
Coalesce wrote:
If your choices are (a) be friends with crappy people, or (b) don’t be friends with crappy people, I recommend (b).
Try meeting people outside of school? Perhaps at a library, music-shop, video-store, art gallery, wherever your interests are.
heres the worst thing : I cant drive,and Im REALLY far away from ANYTHING LIKE THAT! im not even allowed outside the street,but even if I was I couldnt walk to any of those places :_( and even if I could my friends wouldnt know where those places are. also, its 2 and 1/2 away from here and the closest place where anyone my age would go is school, a 30 minute DRIVE there. Im screwed outta that option, otherwise I wouldnt even post this roblem
wat i did also try is to be Xtra nice to her. it seemed to work,then she got even meaner, and thats wat seems to happen every time. So i figure be UBER NICE 2 her wen I can, but also try to stay out of her hair. the thing is, its hars to be nice to her,because besideds MATH SCIENCE AND LA i have 1 class with her, and Noahe,EV and a few other people she always hangs out with, so its hard
Screw it, no use chasing a dead freindship with a person you really don’t like, and who hangs out with a bunch of people you don’t like, when they all dislike you…
Get a few good books?
Look, if you really want to change your group of friends, you will. If you’ve changed, people will give you a second chance. They might have not liked you in the past but if you’re nice now and show them you’re not like you used to be then they’ll see it.
Who you choose to be around you lets you know who you are. If they see you with Lauren and other stupid girls then they’ll assume you’re one of them. Separate yourself from her. even if you sit by yourself for a while.
Coalesce wrote:
Screw it, no use chasing a dead freindship with a person you really don’t like, and who hangs out with a bunch of people you don’t like, when they all dislike you…
Get a few good books?
thing is,I do like the people she hangs out with ( and she basically hangs out with anyone who doesnt already suck) and when shes not around those people are really nice. its just that shes usually around,so those people are usually jerks too. I only have one other friend whos not a complete physco (but she getting there) and 1 person who calls my her BFF which sucks cuz i only see her from 3-5 on certain days during play rehearsal. and I also said B4 that i attract the freaks? well its true. 2 girls are always following me, and one is very deranged and the other acts ok but is a real fighter chick. like… O.o scary… so… its really only Lauren thats the problem, which isnt fair becuz for 2 and a half years i was one of her BEST FRIENDS and now im like…like shed rather eat live spiders then talkto me, whichisnt fair eaither, because she wouldnt have friends with brooke or anyone else if I HADNT INTRODUCED HER TO THEM! cuz I have known most of the kids in my class since first grade, and brooke was my BFF for a year or so, then I INTRODUCED HER TO THEM! and now since its like ‘oh she introduced me to all her friends,she like a lemon and i squeezed al the juce out of her ill just throw her away, la di da’ and im like ‘well screw that’ but when i do that she just brings me down. also, she gets new ‘BFFAE’.like 5 of them, every frikin day, even noah, which is the lil midget that we all make fun of ( i think its cuz noahs dating laurens “real” BFF abbie) but any way, its like i said. shed rather eat live spiders then talk to me. but if I stop being friends with her I lose contact with almost everybody in my grade (except for PE cuz thats where the freaks are)
FYI! I am the person who wrote this post, just so u know, i really am. u mite have been wondering. i posted it anominously, thinking that it would still show up as me when I went to do something. stupid didnt :-(
If she’s that bad… I’d really suggest walking away from her. If the others won’t associate with you without her ’seal of approval’ then they’re not worth it either.
Summer Rain
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