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my boyfriend wants to go to gay bars with a gay family member and his gay friends.

we live far apart so i can’t go with him. i have mixed feelings about it seeing as how we haven’t consumated things due to a physical issue. i feel weird saying that because we love each other very much. should i be worried?

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ScarofLo18 offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

I wouldn’t rule it out as a possibility just yet. . . .

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Gusty offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

I dont think you should worry, me and my husband hang out at gay bars from time to time and neither one of us are even remotely bi. It’s just another bar.

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1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

thanks gusty, that’s what people have been saying. next time we visit i’m going to go with him.

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mz.mo offline Verified User (9 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 22 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Get over it. I go to gay bars with friends and it doesnt mean I want chicks. Its really not a big deal. Its just a bar where the larger demographic isnt straight rather then visa versa.

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RTD offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (54 minutes after post)

Yeh, don’t worry about it. I’ve been to gay bars with friends, and am quite happy with my girl of 4 years. It’s all good.

You’ve got nothing to worry about =)

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