anger help: I have had it….I can truely say that I DO NOT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING!

dawggfa

I have had it…

.I can truely say that I DO NOT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING!!!!!! I have always been a caring person, helping when I can to who ever…Now…I have reached an end. I have been trying to care for my wife and all she wants to do is eat pills, My Dad is very sick with no better in sight. I have nobody to turn to. Our kids are the most selfish people on the planet. They live 8 miles away and the only way to work or town is by our house, and they will not even stop…Have not heard anything from them in about a year. THEY PASS THE HOUSE 2 TIMES A DAY…We have no food, no money, nothing. Church is a joke…”Oh we love the Lord and all that mess, but turns around and publically hurt your feelings and then not help, knowing the shape we are in. If any thing your church is suppose to help. Thank goodness you can not buy beer with 14 or so cent, or I would drink and drink and drink. ANd yes it would solve MY problems, at least for a while anyway. I sit in my chair and just want to start breaking everything in the house to relieve anything inside of me. I have so much anger. What have I done to have people treat me like this, when all I do is to try and take care of them. I need help, advice wise and mentally, cause I am losing it folks.

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ray48teres 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (22 minutes after post)

alway’s remember their is someone worse off then you.i try to help people.i lost my husband of 37 year’s 5 month’s ago.same with my kid’s.now that my heart is gone she is here.been a rough life.i am looking at 5 to 10 year’s for keeping him alive.did what ever i had to do.no one would help. but if he was still here i would again.he was my heart and soul.you can’t give up!talk to god he does listen i know.i was angry because god took him from me.your wife need’s you.she need.s help your kid.s will be back.drinking help’s for a while but when you wake up it’s right their again.i will pray for you.i will tall if you need someone.god be with you alway’s

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dawggfa 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (31 minutes after post)

Thank you for being concerned. I know that they are people out there with problems worst than mine, God help them. It just makes me sick, literally sick physically, to see other people who is suppose to be there for you when you need them, and what makes it worst, I was there for them in their time of need. Money wise, time wise, support wise. Now that the tables have been turned. Nothing from them…..AND THIS IS CHURCH FOLKS…..not just some joe-blow person, But people that are suppose to be taking a stand for God and their beliefs and help their fellow brethern. At this point..WHAT A JOKE..Anger is just the tip of it.

ray48teres 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (37 minutes after post)

been their done that.but the only way to defeat is love.you need it so does your family.don’t give up!how old is your wife and kid’s

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time travelor 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

It’s good not to care too much but you still have to keep on taking care of the wife and even the kids if they need it. Without caring for people like that we might as well be stones instead of humans.

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Almost Elysium 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 hours, 27 minutes after post)

I know what you mean about church. It seems almost like a Sunday only thing. It kills me how little people really care. It makes Christianity, or any religion of compassion, seem irrelevant. I haven’t been to church in about 8 months. I want to go, but I’m pretty discouraged spiritually right now.

09888887 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (6 hours, 47 minutes after post)

I am so sorry life seems so hard at the moment. Stick by it dude, I know it seems hard…I can’t say I have ever been in your situation, but at the end of the day you have to feel happy with the person you are.

I get so angry at people, they just seem not to care. I can’t change that. All I can do is be the person I want to be and hope it touches somebody and influences their life…

If I can suggest anything it would be to read, and read, and read the bible. I know for sure as soon as I start making excuses to not read I begin to feel low - and life seems to get out of my control. You just need something to have a little hope in.
Churches aren’t always right.
Do you think Jesus would be proud of Churches that preach whole sermons about money and ‘prosperity’?
Christianity is about a relationship between you and god…i am still learning this.
Stick by it, He will help you out, and give you hope…
Just don’t give up =)

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (19 hours, 43 minutes after post)

My mum is a devout Catholic. She attends Church twice a day, reads lessons, cleans the Church, helps with their charity sales etc.

I am disabled but she ignores me. When she does visit me (when dragged here by my dad) she doesn’t even take her coffee mug to the kitchen, much less wash it up, when she knows I struggle to do this myself.

My point is that relgious people and relatives can be just as uncaring/unthoughtful as anyone else.

We can’t change others, only change how we react to them/ think about them. Don’t judge others harshly and you will find your anger will subside and life will become clearer, better. Good luck to you.

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ray48teres 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

this is so true.i try to do what god want’s.not alway’s right but i do try.but their is people that do care.just have to be carefull.he help’s me every day and i try to help somebody else

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