girl help: I am really confused about this girl. - Help.com

You’re a smart guy. You know she likes you. So go for it.

I have no idea how to, though… should I just tell her I like her?

gaga65 wrote:
I have no idea how to, though… should I just tell her I like her?

YES.

by God, yes.

confused just start talking to her.find out thing’s about her.ask her if she would like to go to a movie or anywhere.it sound’s like she does but you have got to let her know it .you might just be surprised

Don’t go too fast like that. If you like her ask her to a dance, and if she rejects show no emotion and just simply agree with her. Girls can be put under pressure if you ask them a serious question. I’ve had it happen, i asked a girl once, she said she wasn’t ready. I later found out that she liked me but i just gave up. So what i’m trying to say is take it slow but give her little hints that you are interested in her. If she compliments you, than compliment her back. It’s not as hard as it seems, you honestly have nothing to lose. Middle School is middle school, if you don’t take chances than you’ll regret it.

Just be friendly at first. Smile! Very important, don’t forget to smile. Don’t forget to breathe either. You don’t have to make a big deal and declare your love for her, but you can let your feelings show just in the way you walk and talk.

you could try and compliment her and see how she takes it,
invite her out with some friends that way there is no pressure,
if she likes you it will show if she thinks you like her too

shawdyamazin wrote:
juss fhuk her

Why on earth would you put something so crude such as this on here? I realize that he is middle school and knows very well about that but he is still young enough that he doesn’t need that kind of input to confuse him. I’m not saying he is too innocent to know about it but this seems to really be a serious situation with him, at least it is important to him. I just don’t understand why anyone would put something so vulgar or rude on here. He needs advice or else he wouldn’t be on here asking.

As far as the actual advice goes, just be nice! =) Talk to her and laugh when she says something cute. If she is trying to say something and messes up let her know that you think it’s cute. Tell her compliments but take it slow. Get to know her and base the speed of your friendship/relationship on what kind of person you think she is. If she seems to move faster, move faster. If she acts like she is stuck in the friend zone, try to help her out of it. Get close to her in class if she needs help with something. Smile at her and talk about simple things. Most importantly, remember to have fun! No girl likes a sulky guy! =)

P.S. If you decide you don’t like her that way after a while (these things take time) then what have you lost? nothing. What have you gained? A friend. =)