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Why do some adults just can’t seems to let go of p

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linuxya offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

People do things because they get something out of it.

Some people hold onto pain because they get something out of it. Maybe they like being a victim because it gives them an excuse to not accomplish things or change themselves. Maybe the pain is just a crutch they can always use to justify their unhappiness vs. having to do something about it.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

Linuxya… excellent reply.

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