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I get upset with how my partner talks to me and gets angry at me.
I moved to the other side of the world to his home country, I have no family here and few friends as I’m a stay-at-home mum to our baby plus I do not speak the language of the country we moved to. He has friends, family and work collegues here. I don’t know how to make the relationship better. I feel like I’m struggling with it alone. I’ve tried talking to him but he says all couples have trouble after a while and he thinks I’m too sensitive. I don’t know how to make him understand how destructive it is to our relationship if he is always angry. I don’t want to be a victim and “poor me” but I don’t know how to make it better if he doesn’t see a problem with how he treats me. He is a very stressy person and it seems like if he is in the wrong mood anything I say can make him angry so I can’t win - I can “make him” angry without meaning to. It’s not all day every day but it seems like at least once per day he gets annoyed with me about something. I don’t want to put up with this forever but don’t know how to make it better. My brother has met him and thinks that he is a “bully”. What should/can I do?
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