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I am always angry lately…

at everything… having a hard time accepting major life changes.

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

what sort of changes?

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1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

me to…but no one likes change, some just cope w/ it better than others. or it might be that you have issues w/ certain things you don’t want to let go of; i know i do, so resisting change is sometimes your only way to hang on to those. it sucks even more when you HAVE to change weather you like it or not! i’m going through some major change right now, and all i can say is deal w/ it as quickly as possible, then you can start to get over it.

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Sweetgurl24_ offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

you should be happy its boring being the same thing everyday. you should have a positive outlook on things that change and that will get you through it

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sam2009 offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Talk to friends about your issues. Do fun relaxing things. Be with positive, calm people. Telling yourself that change is a part of life and that this too shall pass could be helpful. And if none of that works and anger is really a problem where you are having trouble controlling yourself or risking harming someone else then an anger management class may be helpful.

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eaglewings offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (11 hours, 5 minutes after post)

I am recently married, and very blessed with that. However, my husband is legally blind and there are stressors that go with that. We have a very open relationship and talk about everything. ITs just me accepting these changes for the rest of my life. I too have a disability and often become overwhelmed by everything. I know about boundaries.. and work real hard to sort through all that. Now my husbands mother, has been diagnosed with cancer and it does not look good. We have been asked to step in for her Chemo treatments, but live really far away. My husband is in full time school and cannot leave and I work full time, and have a major state exam to study for in December…. I believe in God and i am a born again Christian so i fight for to keep my head up every day, I am just walking through alot,

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

If you live far away from her, and have school, work, and disabilities to deal with, neither you nor your husband can be expected to drop everything to be at his mom’s side. A visit once in a while, sure. But you have to keep living your lives.

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eaglewings offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 days, 9 hours after post)

Thats what we said. And we will hold to that as well…. Its sad when, the family can’t get it, and demand more from you and twist it as if you dont care. Thank you for your help

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