Love help: I am still in love with my daughters father but he is no good - Help.com

I think that if you stop “communicating with him period” you’ll be hurting your daughter. Children need a father figure in their lives. But if he’s like legit bad, like I’m talking drugs, alcohol, prison, etc bad, then just have a talk with him, and try not answering telephone calls from him (even though it’ll be hard to resist, but I’m sure you can do it) and well, I think the rest of it depends on how “bad” he is…

how does he send u a message? phone or email?

Until you change your number/email you are kidding yourself that you don’t want to communicate with him… and he knows it.

I have been exactly where you are now…. didn’t want anything to do with my ex… or that is what i kept telling myself… i didn’t change my number because deep down i still had feelings for my ex…. and i stupidly let him back into my life six months down the line…. we tore each other apart for a further five months…. and it ended again…i kept my number determined not to ever contact him again…. he started ringing me so this time i changed my number…. he doesn’t have my number and i have never checked to see if he has changed his since…. It’s the only way you can move on.

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Until you change your number/email you are kidding yourself that you don’t want to communicate with him… and he knows it.

I agree…just change ur email and phone number…maybe u should move too?

You have to change it again… and give the number only to your very very close family… not even to friends who might know him… but if you are honest with yourself are you sure you didn’t let him have the number… you said you still loved him… while you feel like that you can do some silly things without even relising it at the time.

Don’t waste your money if there is 1% of you that thinks you might still want to be with him…. you have to be 100% sure and strong enough to carry it through.