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a couple months ago i had gone to the army and i got injury really bad three times 2 head injuries and my lungs had collapse. i had told one of my best friend what happened to me but i didnt tell her i went to the army. i tried to apologies to for not telling her and for telling my problems. she said she never wants to speak to me again. i was always there for her when she need me to and i put up with her for two years and she cant be there for me?? i had one mistake and she flips me off and walks off on me. i trusted with almost everything and she couldnt understand. then she tell me excuses and telling me im not the person i use to be. and before i left i gave her a very special cross that was passed down from my family and i thought i could trust her, i put my faith in her and she takes me for granted, like our friendship meant nothing. then she talks behind my back tell my others that im a monster…. im pissed off, hurt, and betrayed. i tried to understand her side but she gives me excuses and acts like nothing ever happened

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

She sounds like quite a biznitch.

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darkness_and_stars offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

LordTannen wrote:
She sounds like quite a biznitch.

lmao

Seriously though doesnt sound like you did much wrong tbh
Dont get hurt by her, let her be angry and take her stresses out by being angry at you but dont get upset about it, distance yourself and let her know you’re ready to make up when she is.
Mind you i just reread that post and sounds like maybe you’re better off without her…

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Jesse.M.B offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

Maybe it might have been a good idea to tell her that you were in the Army, but that’s your own decision. If you feel that you do not need to tell her, then it’s really not her business. And she seems to be acting somewhat immature about it (not trying to put her down or anything) Maybe you just need to have a good talk with her about it and maybe she’ll soon understand why you didn’t tell her. You have the right to be mad at her for how she’s acting, but she doesn’t have the right to be mad at you since you did not want to tell her about your own life choice.

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jromerog offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

well the reason i didnt tell her because she because i didnt wanted to tell her the reason i went to the army, then when i did tell she told why did you pass your problems and burdens to me…. wtf man. i was just looking for here to help me out a little.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

I wanted to say the biznich thing too…. yeah tell her to give you your cross back or you’re f-ing up her whole world. You have post traumatic stress syndrome so you can get away with anything right now, basically not guilty by reason of temporary insanity.

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

Why do most women hate to see men enlist? They don’t want them to come back severely wounded or what is more, die in combat.

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jromerog offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (35 minutes after post)

so your telling me im crazy???

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

lol.

Get your cross back matey’ Yarr.

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jromerog offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (39 minutes after post)

well i promised here that i would stop talking to her and she will never see me again and i never break my promises im not going to stoop down to her level.

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jromerog offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (44 minutes after post)

please keep this post alive

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (58 minutes after post)

I’m not saying you are crazy, but a good attorney could convince a jury that you were but only long enough to stab a girl in the face with a crucifix and now you are fine and ready to enter the real world again… she’s a loser and you are wasting time even worrying about her. Find a girl whose feelings don’t change every time the wind blows another direction. You deserve better and I am proud of you for defending my freedoms! Thank you for your service to our country.

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