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when you love someone. and you know they love you back? do you just sit around and wait the rest of your life. or do you do something about it? i mean i want to be together but i just think hes afraid of commtiment again? when i say were perfect for each other, i mean we are. i know i may be young but i do know what im talking about. i’m afraid of rejection, so i don’t wanna ask or say anything. i’m pretty sure he knows how i feel. we havent been together for quite some times now, but that doesnt stop us from talking and making fun of each other. i’m just really confused? we act like were dating. but were not? i dont understand why he does this. i love him with everything i have. isnt that enough? ive tried getting over him. but it dont work. ive tried talking to other guys but none of them fit what i need in my life..

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BlindOptimism offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

Sounds like you’re over analysing. I’m not quite sure what specific question you’re asking. I assume you want to be in a relationship with someone whom you’re just friends with. Without knowing more info (or even if I’m right about the question) I would say; if you’re afraid of rejection, you need to ask a question that he can directly answer, like - ‘what sort of guys do you think would date me?’, etc

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Sir Tannen offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Emeryville, CA, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I foreseen you asking this question anonymous.

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Richard Cor de Lyon offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 20 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (43 minutes after post)

well… you didn’t tell us how old you are… but with all your issues, I’d say your not ready for a committed relationship even if you’re 50; NO - love is not enough in a relationship. There is trust, communication, honor, integrity, allowance, appreciation, gratitude, and a whole bunch of other WORK. The qualities you listed are: afraid of commitment (that’s a big one), afraid of rejection, and confusion… doesn’t sound like it’s starting off too well.

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Dr. Ralph offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 63 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (50 minutes after post)

Maybe when you graduate from high school you can go visit him. I’m sure if he feels the way you think he does everything will work out. What about when you are 24 and in your prime and he is 36 and getting fat and old? you’ll have a crush on someone else next summer, try not to let this one get the best of you.

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