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This guy I like was my best friend last year in 8th grade.

But we were doing a project for school and we had to go to the library. My friend Michelle met us there and she met the guy I like. The next day i get on my email and i see that she wrote him 3 love letters from my email pretending it was me proclaiming my love for him. He didn’t talk to me all the next day. So I went onto my other email and told him it wasn’t me, and he said he believed me. We were friends again for the rest of the year until the last week of 8th grade. He didn’t talk to me all through the summer and up till now. He still hasn’t said a word. Yesterday,me and my friends were going home and he passed by and glared at me. That evening, I was at a huge fair with my friends and the guy I like was with his friends. Every time I saw him he was staring at me. But what does that mean? What could have happened? I want to know because I miss our friendship. Help??

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BlindOptimism offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Why can’t you talk with him about it?

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iminexeter offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

When you put your heart on the line it sometimes gets burnt.
I suggest you put your heart on the line again and speak to him about your hurts and fears and press hard with the fear of losing his friendship.
Remember to stress that friendship is important and that you want to know whats going on.

If he is harsh towards you..walk away
if his response is good then hug him

hope this helps

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Dr. Ralph online Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

I don’t have a clue. First of all when he got the “I love you” e-mails why didn’t he talk to you? Sounds like a serious communication breakdown. He should have at least said he didn’t feel the same way or he loved you too or something!
Now he is staring at you. Hmmmmm… when I stare at something it is usually because I like what I am looking at. You two are friends it is time to start talking again.

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chessie offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 hours, 13 minutes after post)

but thats just it-we aren’t friends. i’m so afraid he’ll just keep on ignoring me. and all of his friends are my friends and they still talk to me…but not him. im so lost!

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Dr. Ralph online Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 hours, 18 minutes after post)

Just hand him a piece of paper with your name and phone number on it and some hearts or X’s and the words “call me”. He’ll either throw it away or call you and you will know what is up. I always really liked it when girls did that. Don’t even say anything just give it to him and walk away.

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chessie offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (19 hours, 39 minutes after post)

he already has my phone # and email address. sorry-i forgot to mention that! and i tried to email him but he never replies.

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