Good guy’s finish last? - Help.com

I don’t think it’s a disgusting thought to be seen with heavier girls. As long as they dress stylishly and care about hygeine, nothing’s wrong with them. It’s all about confidence.

‘Finishing last’ is often a concept that people who haven’t even entered the race have.

In other words, they put down your happiness because they can’t comprehend the feeling you have themselves, therefore, they mock it.

And you know the expression the ’silent majority’. You don’t seek to insult when you’re really happy with who/where you are in life.

You’re both right and I really do like who I am. I just can’t seem to find a guy who care less about what I look like and more about what I think. I have a pretty good mind, and I’d like to share it with someone, I just can’t seem to find them!

it’s not just about fat girls, you know. it’s about all in all beauty. and wealth. sometimes race and family name.

society is really like that. it’s up to you if you’ll live your life following what it dictates or break the unspoken rule. :)

I can’t find a guy who likes me for who I am rather than what I look like either and I am of average weight and height. :(

There is no race, there is no game.

Anonymous wrote:
I can’t find a guy who likes me for who I am rather than what I look like either and I am of average weight and height. :(

i’m pretty sure you’ve seen not-so-pretty girls in great relationships right? :)it may be about looks for some instances. but it’s not always the case.

if you insecure about your weight and looks, it will DEFINITELY show. and people don’t want to spend time with insecure people (both as friends or partners). it’s about confidence.

best of luck! love will come, don’t look for it.

vivzofwale is quite right with what she said– the key to all of this is your confidence.

Just remember you are unique, you are lovely, you are a person who has unique views and a loving and caring heart to match it. Live your life with joy because there is no reason to hide from the fact you are wonderful inside. :)
have the confidence that you love yourself– remember it every day and it will slowly lift your spirit.

i remember when i was going out with my ex boyfriend ‘Mark’. He was not all that great looking and whenever i was with him people would give us these strange looks. This one time.. these guys passed us and hit him on the *** and was like ‘you did good for yourself mate’. That got me so angry.. people these days are just SO shallow. Even now.. i’m mates with this guy who’s indian and whenever we hang out together, people would look at us as if to say ‘what the f***** is she doing with him’. They just stare giving us weird looks. It just annoys me SO much. Why can’t everyone just be treated equally.

I have over-weight friends and they have boyfriends, you might be looking in the wrong places.
If weight is a problem for you join a gym , you never know you might find someone there.
its all really comes down to how you feel about yourself as everyone else said confidence is the key.
Confidence can be really hard to have when so many judgemental people are out there
but dont worry about them , more then likely they are insecure with themselves and thats not your problem.

Alot of over weight ladies are beautiful , dont beat yourself up about it
someone will come along and love you for who you are.

because overweight people tend to be lazy and slovenly, which is why theyre overweight in the first place?