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I lost the only girl I’ve ever loved

I thought I could handle it but I cant
and the worst part is that she never knew how I
felt and probably will never know

She was perfect in every way possible. . . . .

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Bobberdee offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (6 minutes after post)

Why won’t she ever know? How long have u known her?

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paulz44 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

all right already holy **** there will be another and as for the feeling thing if she could not feel it when you touched her then she never would if you told her. one day in the future all will come out

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Nostalgia ;[ offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

i met her at summer camp back in 2008
and then i saw her only a couple of times
but every time i saw her i was the happiest i have ever been
but the days just after seeing her were the worst.

shes gone to university now and i know she will change
i tried accepting the fact that shes way out of my league
but i cant forget her

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Belief offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Roslindale, MA, US | 1 month ago (14 minutes after post)

I think this a problem that can be solved mathematically, if you love more girls than there will just be one of many instead of the only one.

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Bobberdee offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

Belief wrote:
I think this a problem that can be solved mathematically, if you love more girls than there will just be one of many instead of the only one.

wow, that’s some BS right there. Nostalgia, u didn’t really LOVE her, u just had a crush. Love is something a whole lot deeper than just seeing her someone in passing. Are u 17, 18? Boys mature slower, so that’s how I was at 15 lol

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paulz44 offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Las Vegas, NV, US | 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

nice thought “belief’ give you a gold star for that one

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Belief offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Roslindale, MA, US | 1 month ago (21 minutes after post)

I think it’s more pragmatism than BS’ism, if a relationship is over and beyond salvation then only thing left to do is to move on regardless of how you do so. I do it with math, maybe he/she could count sheep.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (20 hours, 53 minutes after post)

wa wa wa

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jo offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 day after post)

Then I think you should just tell her how you feel. Who gives a s**t how she reacts. At least you’ll never have the ‘what ifs’. If she doesn’t reciprocate, there are plenty of fish in this big ‘ol sea…

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