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Just be cool, if he wants to be with you, you have nothing to worry about. Whatever you do, don’t screw it up. I screwed up mine, and regret it every day.

I know it’s difficult to ignore your feelings, but that’s something you have to do. You need to realize you are very young and you have a very long time ahead of you to find ‘the one’. What you are going through now is something all humans go through. We find, we fight, we dump, we decide to move on… I do think you’re too young to worry about these kind of things. You should really be focused on yourself and doing that will make you more attractive to the people you really want to be with, friends and prospective lovers all alike!

I agree with jo, you should love yourself before focusing your love on other people and if you are going to bed crying regularly then you something should change. However, even though you are young, does that make the feelings that you are feeling any less real? I would say no. You are in love, you are in pain as well. A relationship will never be free of problems, you have to ask yourself are the hard times worth it? If in your gut you don’t think so then something has to change.