sleepovers help: i am 14 years old and i am friends with a 19 year old.

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i am 14 years old and i am friends with a 19 year old.

we are very close friends and i want to sleep over at his house but my mom won’t let me. he has slept over at my house twice before but she wont let me sleep over at his house. i have convinced her that he is gay and that we wont do anything but she still wont let me. how can i convince her to let me go??

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Kiss_Kiss 20 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

I would just leave it for awhile. It’s an expectation of a parent to be worried about something like that. Considering you wont be watched under there own eyes, they need to trust the parents of the boy as well. If they dont, it’s more then likely not going to happen.
So consider trying to make the parents meet. I no it sounds the worst, but it will increase your chances more.

I wasnt never aloud to stay at my boyfriends house still my parents trusted theres. So just keep strong, hopefully it will happen in time

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Summer Rain 67 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (3 minutes after post)

Why do you wanna sleep over at his place? And is he really gay, or is that what you told your mum?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

Why on earth would a nineteen year old male want to hang out with a fourteen year old female…. if i was your mother i wouldn’t let you anywhere near him.

Gape 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (32 minutes after post)

How did you meet this guy? Why do you want to sleep over at his house?

thesoftattac 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

I know that I wouldn’t let my hypothetical 14 year old daughter sleep over at a random 19 year old guy’s house. Why do you want to do that anyway?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

That is wrong. No nineteen year old guy in their right mind would let a fourteen year old girl stay over at their house unless they had an ulterior motive. That is just a fact of life. And if you disagree, it’s because your fourteen and you just don’t know any better just yet. What difference does it make staying at his house? Meet up with him during the day, and then sleep in your respective houses.

PheeGee 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (4 hours, 23 minutes after post)

Haha the replies make me laugh, I always had older friends, male and female. I slept at their houses a fair few times without anything happening… people really do assume the worst.

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codieisbloati 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

yeah exactly, thank-you ‘PheeGee’…he’s not a random 19 year old, we both do the same sport and are great friends and my parents have met him…

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