I have been drinking alcohol, and I don’t know the hell why? - Help.com

Well are you stressed have you had some changes that makes u unhappy. or just analyze your situation and see what it is that is making you drink.

or, u just want to do the forbiden and just let loose and relax? possibilities are endless

any special event which made you anxious or sad?

well then that’s why you did it
i guess it’s not the best thing to do..anyways you already done it..so it’s like just go on;)
did those things which bothered you sorted out?

You don’t drink alcohol like you do water to live- therefor there must be some “reason” you started drinking. Only you can answer that, especially if you’re going to be sparse with your details.

I don’t know if its about that boy you were seeing, although I know it hurt you quite a bit. Drinkings bad solution to curing your blues, it’s only one problem masking the other. Although it’s good to have a really heavy night out to get out your anger/frustration with some friends.

When I found out my ex had cheated on me and buggered off with that guy I got a few friends together and went on a binge from about 2 in the afternoon till 4 at night and spent about 120 pounds. I felt a little better afterwards as it was a good night out and helped me get some of my frustrations out. I also talked to my friends alot about how I was feeling and they would do their best to cheer me up or keep me ocupied.

Point is I could easily have been drinking too much but I was honest with my friends and they really helped me out, so even if you think it doesnt matter and your friends have better things to do, they are there for you to confide in, thats what friends are for. I think you should try and stop drinking and do some exercise because it helps cheer you up :) Honestly it does lol, trust me ;)

Well my friend is having the same issue. but what she did was take a break from both to get her mind straight not drink. that is a big nono
take up cookies and cakes at least you can work it out in the gym.
drinking is well wen done in moderation, and as little as possible so pls dont continue it its unsafe, i’d rather the calories then drinking cause then i get to work out which im lazy to do but fun cause hotties at the gym are such o say motivation

Everyones entitled to make mistakes Okei, and averyone lies to themselves thinking maybe this time it will work, or this time it will be better. Everyone does that at some point, Be honest with your friends it will be big weight off your shoulders.

As for these men, Maybe its best if you didnt think about them as potential partners but just as friends for the moment, get to know them better and find out if your compatible or if either are to your taste as a partner. You don’t have to rush into anything and being friends and getting to know someone makes for great foundations when you dcide to take your friendship to a higher level.

Im happy your dtangling this little something something delema.ok how do u spell delema. im having a dum day sorry.

but okei, take your time i dont think you so old as to really need to get into a realtionship know. i mean explain to them and try to tell them i like you alot but need to straighten some things. hopefully they will be waiting for you down the road ^_^ or u might find a combination of both

PLS make sure to get it through their man skull that u want a break cause my friends ex’s seemed to think that they were still in a relation them both which psyched her cause they both that day called her. so best of luck :)

no offense to you guys just mean we woman are the superior and well u know how devine we are lol

okei! wrote:
thanks joshy. i think you’ve provided a great deal of advice - to take it easy, not rush and just be friends w/ either. no big deal at the moment. thanks!

a few friends knew a parcel of my love life, but i am not really ready at the moment to give them the whole cake. i think i have to sort it out first, think about it, then weigh my options. anyway, the only think i want to do now really is to enjoy and explore. no big deal still =)

Yes take it easy, keep them as friends for the momment untill you have made up your mind about it all and DON’T think too much about it if you can help it. Go out and have fun :)

Okei, when you say you are drink, do you mean by yourself or are you drinking with friends?

I think occupationally it is good to go out and have drinks with friends and just have fun and let go of problems for a night. But doing it too often is not good. Because then you are using the drinking to not deal with problems.

And drinking by yourself is not good. It is definitely trying to drown your sorrows, witch only causes you more sorrow.

Age and religion is something that can be overcome when two people want to make it work. But it can also be a huge thorn in a relationship. So keep that in mind with this love interest of yours.

By the way, your plant is not looking so good these days. When I repotted it, it read that the steams may turn brown, which they have. But the good news is it has new growth. So I am thinking the old steams are going to fall off and their will be these new healthy ones.

So maybe this is what needs to happen with you. Let the old stuff just fall off and die away and let the new healthy you be blossom.

well i think you know why, but dont want to admit it and stuff and that is quite normal and stuff ^_^… sometimes life can be a bit hrash and we cant find any help but a bottle to help us out ^_^, i totally understand :)… yet you should not fall into temptation, you should find your power ur courage and your strength, that is when you should pull urself together and decide to do something about it and stuff, replace this bad habbit with a good habbit, i believe that is the onyly way to really get ride of the drinking thingy, you need to replace the habbit of drinking with a much more useful habbit… like i suggested before i ssuggest again ^_^ , sports, piano , anything that will calm you down and get ur mind of some stuff…

find strenght in God and his words, find strenght in your savior.

courage :)