ihave a real depressing life and im 13 years old girl i live - Help.com

Well being hateful isnt going to change your circumstance. sorry to say it.
if you know your not happy work hard at what ever you want so that you know that in just a few years your life will change, if you do what your supposed to do school, choirs even and fight to get a little part time job try to get yourself out of this position into one that is better not end your life
life has its constant struggles what you have as your demons no one but yourself understands them but there are some in much worse situation than you and they struggle and not take the easy way out. dont kill urself its just not advisable

Hi,

I am sorry to hear all that is happening to you. I had a similar experience when I was a child.
I lived in one bed cramped flat with my grandmother, sister and parents. My mom was horrible to me and I nearly killed myself. I hated them so much. My mum use to tell me how ugly I was and how I am not as good as my sister. Please don’t despair.
You have to learn to master diplomacy. You have to start thinking about yourself. Focus. How your room looks makes no difference what so ever in the scale of life. If you think about it in a few years you will be able to live alone out of your home and progress in your life.
Start investing in yourself. I did. I was learning as much as I can and escaped in books. I wanted to make sure than when I am on my own I can stand up on my feet and take care of me.
Look for useful qualifications that you may have – where good money are earned.
You have to teach your younger sisters to cope and you have to talk to them – how to share good and bad experiences. To do things together. You have to build with them friendship and understanding. You are oldest – try to take control in a good organized way. Know one thing – everything happens for a reason and this is to teach you how to cope in the future. You will be well equipped and you will be very successful if you apply yourself.
Think of a way to protect yourself from your father.
Where you can hide and how you can talk to him- try to reach him.
Ask him- is beating me helping you cope? Is beating me solving your problems because if it does I will do anything to help you daddy. I am only 13 I am trying but I don’t know how and you are not a good teacher. This will confuse him and make him feel really bad.

Now I have my own kids. My kids are my best friends. We stick together and we had learned how to try to imagine being in the other persons shoes. WE all have difficult moments but try to think in the future.

First you are a 17 year old college student. then you are sober for 15 years. Now you are 13 years old?? That is just with in an hour, thats just today. if we put yesterdays post in there, I would say YOU really do need HELP or aleast something to do.
I think you should be on Jerry Springer!!

Anonymous wrote:
First you are a 17 year old college student. then you are sober for 15 years. Now you are 13 years old?? That is just with in an hour, thats just today. if we put yesterdays post in there, I would say YOU really do need HELP or aleast something to do.
I think you should be on Jerry Springer!!

lol, jerry jerry jerry. cool show

Thats Great!!! U S A U S A U S A

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Anonymous wrote:
First you are a 17 year old college student. then you are sober for 15 years. Now you are 13 years old?? That is just with in an hour, thats just today. if we put yesterdays post in there, I would say YOU really do need HELP or aleast something to do.
I think you should be on Jerry Springer!!

lol, jerry jerry jerry. cool show

lol, so wrong

This person posting, has posted well over 25 post in 24 hours. one time they are a girl then a boy. They never come back to comment on there own post. I think they get off on it!!

well im back and no im not 17 i expected to get help at help.com but some replies really desipointed me as some r kidding about it its not funny and dont confuse me with others plz this is my first and only post and thanks yana u really helped me and im sorry that it happened to you

Anonymous wrote:
well im back and no im not 17 i expected to get help at help.com but some replies really desipointed me as some r kidding about it its not funny and dont confuse me with others plz this is my first and only post and thanks yana u really helped me and im sorry that it happened to you

Maybe I was wrong about you. now your atar has changed. I’m sorry if you think I was making fun of you thats not the case. No one & I mean No one should be beaten or treated like you have been. Hating on your grandmother isn’t going to help. So really if I hurt your feelings I trully am SORRY!!

I am not sorry it happened for a reason, as this was the best school I ever had. Life is not easy but can be very rewarding.
I am successful, I hold 2 degrees and I have 2 wonderful children and a few good friends.

The most important thing is to learn not to judge and to be grateful for all the little things we have.
We are all here to learn and none of us are equipped or told how to be perfect parents, siblings or friends. I have to fine tune every day to what others expect of me or I expect of them. I have no certificate for perfect parenting and sometimes anyone can despair. All people even the richest have problems that are very deep and difficult … to them. We have to learn to be grateful for the small things in life that we take for granted – health, water, sun, peace, time.
I thought about what others commented about your postings. The fact that you are writing here means you a lucking something and you need help. You need to write here and you need someone to write back…
Either way it makes no difference. We all need help sometimes :)