my bf doesn’t pay-attention when were making out

TinyDancer :)

my bf doesn’t pay-attention when were making out

like idk its weird to explain but he does and follows what he wants to do ah im so confused

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littlenick 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 minute after post)

He doesn’t pay attention when you’re making out? WTF does he pay attention to? Does he wonder if he left the iron on when you guys are making out?

Who is this guy?

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nooneknow 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (2 minutes after post)

Have you checked to see if he’s a latent homosexual? I don’t believe I have ever heard of someone doing that before.

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TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (3 minutes after post)

he knows hes kissing me but like he idk its hard to explain he just does what he wants doesn’t follow a rhythm or anything

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 minutes after post)

If he doesn’t spend the time he’s making out with you trying to figure out how to get to second and third base then maybe he’s gay.

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TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

like yesterday he didnt even touch me like just kissed im like wtf!! hes younger then me and i feel like i have to do everything but i dont want top cuz hes the guy idk ahhh

TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (6 minutes after post)

i dont think hes gay maybe a bad kissed but how do i change this?

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (17 minutes after post)

Doesn’t sound like he’s wildly attracted to you.

If a guy’s hot for you, you won’t be able to peel him off. I remember when I was dating my girlfriend in the first few weeks. She kept pulling her skirt down and interrupting my groping to ask me questions. Of course its more than a year later and now she doesn’t have to pretend she wants me to slow down.

It sounds like he knows he’s supposed to kiss you but he’s not enjoying the experience and he’s not trying to move on to the next step.

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TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (19 minutes after post)

well weve been together for like three days haha i think hes nervous

linuxya 15 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (26 minutes after post)

Three days?

Slow things down. Have real dates where he takes you some place first.

If all you do is sit around and kiss it’s not going to be the same.

As for going father than kissing, consider at least a few weeks of real dating first!

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TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (29 minutes after post)

i was exaggerating 11 days and yesterday was our first make out well i think its 11 days on the 15th is ll right? anyways maybe itll b better next time

courtybubble 196 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (4 hours, 19 minutes after post)

oh man i miss the days when you could call it a SRS RELATIONSHP after 11 days.

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TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (19 hours, 5 minutes after post)

SRS?

courtybubble 196 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

serious.

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matthewlyon2 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 day, 11 hours after post)

give him time to get used to you don’t just go right to making out go on dates first build a relationship first.

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TinyDancer :) 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 day, 20 hours after post)

were r on friday :) were gonna watch paranormal activity and having dinner :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 weeks, 1 day ago (3 weeks, 4 days after post)

At least he makes out with you, even if it is bad!

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