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what do men want?

i don’t get it. i’ve never been so stressed. and the stress is getting to me. i don’t know what guys want. i have been dating and i don’t know where to go from here. i hate complications.

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Fuzzy Pepper offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 92 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (2 minutes after post)

Different men want different things. But I think that all people, men and women, want someone who they can grow old with; with whom they can share mutual respect and tenderness.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (12 minutes after post)

it completely depends on the guy dood. but men dont tend to be as withholding of their feelings as women are, if you ask what theyre in it for, usually they just say what it is, rather than being all coy and annoying like women are.
what is so stressful exactly?

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nilanjan4uu offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (12 minutes after post)

Yes Jelly is ry8…
And u kno wat men always want a partner who loves him very much….
who can luv him more den he xpect…
ya dats true…

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (22 minutes after post)

make sure he doesn’t really want a mother in disguise.

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 134 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (26 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
make sure he doesn’t really want a mother in disguise.

or a man in disguise :O

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carey offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (27 minutes after post)

theres a guy i’ve been seeing. we hit it off really well. but we haven’t seen each other in a week. he’s been distant and i don’t know what he wants now.

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vivzofwale offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (37 minutes after post)

how about giving him space? 1 week is not enough for men (i’m just guessing here).

or how about asking HIM what he wants. :)

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krista_marlen offline Verified User (9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 2 days ago (1 day, 21 hours after post)

OH MY GOD do i ever hear u girl? thanks for the reply on that. lol that date i went on with the guy ive known a year..first its lets makeout and have a great night together..and then its……ohhh i hope u dont “expect anything” i mean who says something like that. what a douche lol. then hes calling my house again a week later..sometmes with guys u have to tell them to make up their mind or not .

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 2 days ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

lol i second douche.

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 2 days ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Anonymous wrote:
lol i second douche.

but….then no your part you should always do things w/o expecting anything in return. do them because you want to/feel like it, not because of what you ‘think’ you might get. key word is ‘might’. which usually means hell no!

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Anonymous #
3 weeks, 1 day ago (2 days, 19 hours after post)

guys want a nice girl that is genuine, isnt afraid to express her feelings, wont say something and mean something else, likes to cuddle, will give their guys love in return even though they dont ask for it, and simple, because some guys like to get you little cute things to make you smile hoping theyll get a kiss out of it :)

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