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Is the Writing On The Wall

i been with this girl for just over 3 months now and the last few weeks she has been a little distant from me…doesnt really talk to me much about stuff anymore. ill be lucky to get any bedroom action once a week but she has been working nights. at her bday party recently she went up and kissed another bloke on the cheek and was msg another guy while in bed that night. at first i thought she got a bday msg so i didnt worry about it but i looked through her phone while she was in the shower and found she had sent the first msg at 3 30 in the morning saying hey long time no see have to catch up just us

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courtybubble online Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 133 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (15 minutes after post)

yes, the writing is in huge neon letters all over the wall.

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An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (24 minutes after post)

yeah… thats wat i figured…yet she still msg me everyday and come to my house everynight and spends the night with me…somebody once told me doggy style is the most popular position in a relationship…men sit up and begs…woman roll over and play dead…

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (24 minutes after post)

Looks like she’s bailing out of the relationship but just forgot to tell you…

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An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (26 minutes after post)

O_o cant say ive ever heard a saying that like that before lol.
it aint about begging, its about seeing whats actually happening and not letting yourself be taken for a ride.

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (31 minutes after post)

when she first started doing nights i got woundering..is she really working nights so i told her the day before i would go and bring her some dinner…she was there…last week i thought i would do the sam but suprise her…she has dinner break same time each night…got there half hour early…her car was nowhere to be seen….waited down the street from her house…as i drove by her house her car wasnt there…msg her if she wasnt me to bring her some dinner…she reackon she had already eaten

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3 weeks, 4 days ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

She’s lying to cover something up…. the trust has been broken so you can’t do anything but leave her… Keep your dignity…. Just walk away…. Ignore her if she tries to contact you.

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