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OKAY WHY SO MEAN

ithere was this boy at my school that i really liked and i thought he liked me. come to find out he hates gays and now he nows i like him and he is being a pain in the *** to me and it hurts. what do i do?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (0 minutes after post)

Ignore him.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Find someone more deserving of you.

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mathfreak offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

it still hurts cause i have to be in his class and i love him.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 126 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

If he hates gays and he hates you, you don’t want to expose yourself to someone like that. He will look for ways to hurt you even worse. And I mean in a physical way. You have to be careful.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

Just keep reminding yourself that your brain says “don’t love a hateful person” - your heart will get the message.

Keep busy and put your effort and attention into being the sort of person loving people will want to be around.

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mathfreak offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (13 minutes after post)

i just have to lie to my self? is that what you are saying?

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (15 minutes after post)

Doesn’t your brain tell you a hateful person is not worthy of you?

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mathfreak offline Verified User (10 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 18 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (34 minutes after post)

yes but when you love someome you cant leave them alone even if they are to me i have this voice in my head that tells me that i can change him. but i dont want to do that to any one cause being gay can be a living hell.

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

It’s you that needs to change most of all.

Until you start believing in yourself and accepting yourself for what you are, you are always going to hurt.

Be proud, tell anyone who doesn’t like it to go get a life and walk tall. You’ll soon find others walking with you.

When you act the victim, you become the victim. Remember that.

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Genesis721 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 hour, 1 minute after post)

You can’t change a heterosexual person into a gay person. You need to sort out “if you really love someone” or “do you want to control someone.”

Physical attraction isn’t all there is to loving someone. It’s a big part of it but, how does this person treat you? You can’t be in love for long if this person constantly treats you like dirt. Mumstheword is right walk tall, hold you head up high, you are what you are and there is NOTHING wrong with it.

There are a lot of Gay people who have very happy lives. They don’t worry about being accepted by everyone they meet. They know there are those out there that are opposed to them and that’s okay as long as they don’t do anything violent. Live and let live. Be strong.

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