Love help: B0yfriend pr0blems!

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B0yfriend pr0blems!

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S0 i have a b0yfriend and everything is going good! hes the best thing that ever happend he makes me happy n everything..but i just broke up with my e about 2 or 3 months ago and i cant forget him..he has another girl and it hurts me alot..i want to tell him how i feel but i dont know what hes going to say..n i dont think its fair for my boyfriend!…im tryin really hard to forget him but its impossible cuz i always see him everyday at school!..even when i try to avoid him his there with his girl! we were going out for 1 year n 8 months!:[ idk what to do..n i dont want to loose my current boyfriend..

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classicrock1818 76 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (4 minutes after post)

then stay with your boyfriend. what you are doing is the way to do it. you have to meet someone else to move on from a relationship, and itll always be hard to move on after you dated someone for so long. so just keep strong and keep doing what your doing :)

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ale_gleez0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (5 minutes after post)

soooo..i just let him be with his life..n leave him alone?

JDC 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (6 minutes after post)

classicrock1818 wrote:
then stay with your boyfriend. what you are doing is the way to do it. you have to meet someone else to move on from a relationship, and itll always be hard to move on after you dated someone for so long. so just keep strong and keep doing what your doing :)

exactly. yall were together for a long time and he was probably your first love. thatll take time to get over. hes with someone else and so are you. just stay strong and be happy with ur bf and in time you will get over it

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classicrock1818 76 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (6 minutes after post)

yeah you can still be friends and all, but be happy with the guy youre with and just keeping moving on. eventually you wont think about your ex in that way. no worries :)

Help me with: Alright I have some more lyrics I was hoping you’d look at, please and thank you?

ale_gleez0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (8 minutes after post)

well he is my first love thats why its so hard to forget him! i want to tell him how im feeling but im afraid of what hes gonna do..but thats not good for my boyfriend..im just really confused:[

classicrock1818 76 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (12 minutes after post)

dont tell him, just try to move on youll be a lot happier that way, its safe :)

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JDC 22 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (13 minutes after post)

dont tell him thats too rash. give it a while and you will get over it. and ull be glad you never said anything. your first love will be difficult to get over but you will. you just have to be strong and focus on what u got now

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ale_gleez0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (18 minutes after post)

mmmmmmm ok! its gonna take a while thats for sure! well maybe its cuz i dont want to get attached with the boyfrien i have now cuz i dont want to get hurt again..we have 2 months together n we havent said”I love you”..n that really bothers me but still i dont feel the love cuz i dont want to get attached

classicrock1818 76 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (19 minutes after post)

thats natural, dont worry about it. just be patient and youll be fine

Help me with: Alright I have some more lyrics I was hoping you’d look at, please and thank you?

ale_gleez0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 3 weeks, 4 days ago (20 minutes after post)

they say if you say i love you to quik its not true ha..so yeah idk:/

slickster_9 2 #
Tacoma, WA, US | 3 weeks, 2 days ago (1 day, 23 hours after post)

ale_gleez0 wrote:
mmmmmmm ok! its gonna take a while thats for sure! well maybe its cuz i dont want to get attached with the boyfrien i have now cuz i dont want to get hurt again..we have 2 months together n we havent said”I love you”..n that really bothers me but still i dont feel the love cuz i dont want to get attached

thats interesting lol you dont want to get hurt.. but your thinking about another guy while with your bf hehe… i do agree with the person who said hold back on telling him… i mean dont keep him totally out of the loop but.. letting your boyfriend, especially as long as two months already, that you are still thinking about your ex is VERY uneasy feeling, and very stressful for him… what i would suggest is to stay with him and DONT hold back because its not fair for oyur boyfriend to think “im giving her my all and shes giving her all to me” when youre really not…

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