guys help: i get told im fun to talk to, but thats only the first few days i text people.

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i get told im fun to talk to, but thats only the first few days i text people.

i run out of things to ask, im a girl and it seems most guys i know cant keep a conversation.

can anyone help me..give me suggestions or something on what to talk about/ask?

random stuff, i dont want to bore this guy.

we take turns asking questions back and forth but i’ve already asked every question i could possibly think of and asking him what hes doing or how his day was is kinda getting old and i think hes starting to get annoyed with it.

we both never know of anything to talk about and im afraid thats gonna change the ways he thinks of me cause i really like him but im not sure if he feels the same way.

and sometimes i dont write back for awhile so i dont seem desperate but then he sends the message twice so i guess thats a sign he wants to talk.

i just dont know what to do.

please help:)

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PheeGee 134 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

just talk about anything thats on your mind

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becc 149 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

i have that problem sometimes. dont talk to them as much. if you talk all the time you will run out of things to say.

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DoubleGin19 68 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

well firstly its not your fault :)

and if you’re always trying your hardest to talk, then its not you who has a talking problem or anything like that. its the guys you’re talking.

there are no real ways of mixing it up. i guess you could be more flirty.. a little bit more exotic will always catch a guys attention.. or you could just go with be feisty and asking him whats his problem and why he doesnt talk to you that much. it may back fire as he might turn around and be blunt and say he doesnt like you, and thats why. but 9/10 a guy likes the whole feisty thing :)

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DoubleGin19 68 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

ooooh and another piece of advice…

just talk none sense :) it always works x

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rae47 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

just be random. talk about controversial topics like animal rights, or something, and it will make you look more interesting.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (26 minutes after post)

how can i be more flirty?

DoubleGin19 68 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

well just be more open with what you say :) x

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (52 minutes after post)

thank you:)

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Anonymous edited this post 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i get told im fun to talk to, but thats only the first few days i text people.

i run out of things to ask, im a girl and it seems most guys i know cant keep a conversation.

can anyone help me..give me suggestions or something on what to talk about/ask?

random stuff, i dont want to bore this guy.

i’ve already asked every question i could possibly think of and asking him what hes doing or how his day was is kinda getting old and i think hes starting to get annoyed with it.

please help:)

Anonymous edited this post 1 month ago. Read the previous text »

i get told im fun to talk to, but thats only the first few days i text people.

i run out of things to ask, im a girl and it seems most guys i know cant keep a conversation.

can anyone help me..give me suggestions or something on what to talk about/ask?

random stuff, i dont want to bore this guy.

we take turns asking questions back and forth but i’ve already asked every question i could possibly think of and asking him what hes doing or how his day was is kinda getting old and i think hes starting to get annoyed with it.

we both never know of anything to talk about and im afraid thats gonna change the ways he thinks of me cause i really like him but im not sure if he feels the same way.

please help:)

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