i need a lot of help right now.

rae47

i need a lot of help right now.

my mom filed a restraining order against the boy i love in july, and so i can no longer see him or talk to him, or anything. i still manage to secretly see him and talk to him though. i’ve tried sooo hard to persuade my mom to drop the restraining order, but she refuses. the whole reason for it, was that my bf and i got into a fight, and we called each other names. that was reason enough for my mom to file it. i’ve tried everything to persuade her to drop it, but she won’t. i dont know what to do. please help me.

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steff 236 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (12 minutes after post)

You called each other names?

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rae47 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (14 minutes after post)

yeah. my mom said it was “an abusive relationship” and that i was going end up getting beaten up or raped.

mumstheword 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (20 minutes after post)

Your mom did not issue the restraining order. The courts did. They don’t do that unless they are satisfied there is genuine risk. It’s not that easy to just slap one on a person …

If the restraining order says he is not to contact you, then seeing him is jeapordising him big time. You do realise he could go to jail?

I’d say that you are not really understanding what the courts clearly do understand.

rae47 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (30 minutes after post)

first off, he’s a junior firefighter, and a cop, so i doubt he’ll go to jail. and second of all, i understand that the courts issue the pfd’s. what i DONT know is how to persuade my mom to get the courts to drop it.

steff 236 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (38 minutes after post)

Do you think your mom is right at all? Are you in an abusive relationship?

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rae47 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (38 minutes after post)

no, he’s never hurt me or anything. he only called me a *****, and i called him an *** and a jerk and other stuff. but neither of us really meant it…

steff 236 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (43 minutes after post)

Doesn’t sound like a very nice relationship. But if you’re an adult…I don’t understand how your mom can get legally involved.

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rae47 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (44 minutes after post)

I’m 16…we only got in a fight because he was hyped up on energy drinks, and i dont like him drinking them

mumstheword 21 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (46 minutes after post)

If the courts were happy to give him a restraining order, they aren’t going to think twice about slamming him in jail.

If he’s a cop.. he should know better. If he’s happy to break the law, that confirms that your mom is absolutely right and he is untrustworthy and unreliable.

You’re 16. That makes you very much a minor according to the laws of your state now doesn’t it?

If that’s the case, I think you know why he got that order….

Dr.Delf 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (52 minutes after post)

stay away from the guy! He does not need you getting him in trouble because you think you love him.

steff 236 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (16 hours, 48 minutes after post)

He’s a cop? Would that mean he’s quite a bit older than you? I don’t blame your mom for intervening then. You should be with someone your own age and he shouldn’t like little girls! *shivers*

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