Love help: hello i’m new here,so… i’ll just start with my problem .

Sneekret

hello i’m new here,so…

i’ll just start with my problem .

Today, a person i love so much, a person i care about so much, moved away .
and, please don’t get me wrong, it was not romantic love .
right now i feel like my heart is going to burst out of my chest,
i can’t breathe normal, i can’t stop crying since this morning, and now
am trying to cry myself to sleep .
she said i’ll be fine, she hugged me so tight and said she’s gonna miss
me the most .
i keep trying not to think about her, but i can’t, i just can’t, my head
is filled with thoughts of her and all of the fun times we spent together .
and it hurts…it hurts so bad .
how can i calm down ? none of the advice i’ve read or heard helped me, so,
please, can you try ?
and…..is there maybe a way i could just forget about what happened ?
i can’t deal with this anymore .

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (11 minutes after post)

Everybody has to go through something like this quite a few times in their lives. I’m guessing this is probably your first; and that’s losing someone you love. She’s just moving on with her life and this is where it’s taken her and it’s where she needs to go. Who knows; the two of you may end up together again someday.

Take comfort in the fact that you’re a part of who she is and how she lives her live. Those little things that you do that she’s picked up and copies; you know what I mean. You had such an affect on her that they are a part of her now. And the same with you.

A best freind is like the same soul in two bodies. But she’s moved on with her life and you must with yours too. Just stick a picture of you and her on your wall to remind you of her every now and then :)

Iron Man 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (37 minutes after post)

it’s not that bad, shes just moving away! call her, email her, go visit her. it’s not she’s gone forever

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (37 minutes after post)

Time will solve this problem. Until then cry, or stick a picture in your wallet…

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (49 minutes after post)

dont kill yourself…. just think about carmen ekectra and shaq they broke up after 10 years.

phuni 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (2 hours, 55 minutes after post)

omg tell her how you feel!!!! whats the worst that could happen? she already moved away! this could be awesome. trust me, it happened to me.

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An Unknown Location | 4 weeks ago (15 hours, 42 minutes after post)

Why don’t you take deep breaths and then call her and tell her how you are feeling and that you really miss her. Put a picture of you and her in a frame in your room where you can see it, and try to calm down.

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